Amari is she even allowed to do that???
I doubt she would be laughing at what it is your having it would be more so a laugh because she knows and you dont.. you know what I mean?
I would be so angry if that was me too!
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Amari is she even allowed to do that???
I doubt she would be laughing at what it is your having it would be more so a laugh because she knows and you dont.. you know what I mean?
I would be so angry if that was me too!
Oh no what an idiot! You REALLY can't read into that at all! You don't know her which is one of the reasons her actions are so weird!! She may also be excited and would love to be the one to tell you you're having girls! She may have been hoping you'd say go on then tell me! Or she could have been joking completely and doesn't have a clue. Either way her actions were totally inappropriate and unprofessional. But this tells you absolutely nothing about the gender of your babies xx Twins are so exciting :)
Pstar,
How do you find the age gap between your two boys?
@Amari
She had no right to look at your personal medical records and tease you like that. I'm so furious for you! She is completely unprofessional. But try not to worry; the receptionist is a complete idiot. She would tease you whether you were having boys or girls. She's just a clueless word-I-won't-say-cause-I'm-a-lady.
Amari, I would let someone in an authority position there know what she did and said to you. There are privacy laws.
I think she'd act immature either way with how you describe her.
Yes, I am irate. My dh tried to call but they were already closed. I am going to find another u/s facility too. I just cannot stop thinking about it. I am so hung up on reading into what it means. I know she could just as easily been laughing just b/c she says she knows, my mind is just stuck on it meaning the other.
And you're right, she may not even know. People suck sometimes. Ugh.
:HH: I am so sorry that you had a bad day Amari hon. You certainly didn't deserve that crap! :(Quote:
Originally Posted by amari
Just because people have power doesn't mean they should use it.. A receptionist should have NO right to even joke about looking at your personal chart.
Amari, that lady is a bitch!! Don't read into it, she sounds like one of those girls that like to gossip and she knows a secret you don't, thats all. I don't think it has anything to do with two boys or two girls or whatever the genders of your babies are. Screw her, and if I were you I would go right into the office or get in touch with her boss and let them know that we have privacy laws for a reason and if she continues working there then there is going to be a problem.
Ditto NBP. That's absolutely uncalled for and I would report the incident to her manager. She was totally out of line. What a jerk!!!!!!!!
definitely report it!! People like that get away with their unprofessional behavior because patients don't report it. They can't discipline or fire employees without specific examples.
Five-.whatever happened with your 24 hr urine and your pressures?
I agree! What a wretched woman! I would report her 100%. And there is no way that you should read into that. It means nothing about the gender of your babies only how tacky and unprofessional she is.
As for mt slew of tests~ everything was fine! BP was back to normal today and no traces of protien. Woohoo! So business as usual. I go for my glucose testing and u/s next then its every 2 weeks! That came up fast!
Douli ~i have cramps when i walk for more than 5 mins,never fails ,im trying to be really lazy this pregnancy because im 38 i am high risk and i feel more weak this time around,i used to walk every day with my last too for 45 mins,and i havent done that once this one!
Gentle ~that sounds great i think ill try to look on ebay ,i remember doing that last time and i only saw U.S. sellers and it was soo pricey,maybe theyl be some in EU countries,i think i want to try the real version this time:)
Amari~ Im so angry for you,what a Biatch grrrrr*But i seriously think she was smiling because she knows you are having 2 girls my dear:) Honestly she probably wouldnt have even said anything if it was boys! Just put it out of your mind,you will have 2 beautiful surprise girls on Dday:)
Gentle is it the Marie Mongan one or ?which is best..i see 2 types?And should it be one cd and a book or?
Definately let somebody there know about what she said. Make a big stink about it unless she may continue to do it to others. I would be very upset if it were me.
Amari, i can only imagine what you are going through :( do not get upset, I feel that you are carrying girls, but this Lady should be punished!!! Very unprofessional and rude! Please, feel better :cheerteam: you do not need extra stress right now:)))
Ladies, you are the best! I talked to my OB office and my doc said if I want I could just come to him every two weeks instead of going to the specialist. He is comfortable measuring my cervix etc, plus I wouldn't have to go to two different offices. Yay! Don't have to see that woman again!
Weird question -.has anyone who was on the le diet been losing hair? In my other pregnancies my hair got thicker. Then like a lot of women, I lost all the extra hair at once, over a couple weeks, at about 6 months post partum. Apparently it is from the stress on your body being pregnant and then delivery, etc. I've noticed a lot of hair loss in the last week or two and I wonder if it is from the stress on my body of the le diet and losing all that weight. Strange.
I think you should report her Amari. That is against patient confidentiality!!! I work in a hospital and I cant even look at my own chart and or anyone else`s unless I am actually working with that patient for something specific. And I can`t discuss it with them! I really do think you should say something especially since you are not going back! I am sure that ob would want to know about one of their employees behaving like that, completely out of line!
Yes! My dh has unclogged our shower twice the last 5 months!!! I have long hair though,its amazing i have any left,my other pregnacies i also had shiny healthy hair that i lost more after..I just realized we were on the Le diet about the same amount of time too we are around 2 weeks difference with our BFP i think,so maybe thats why?Quote:
Originally Posted by NeedAGirl!
Mine does not seem as thick as in previous pregnancies either. I'm losing too, but not a huge amount. Not shiny at all!
Hey pinkin I love it. They get on great. They have their moments when I have to be mammy and referee but they want to do everything together. Whenever we go anywhere or even turn on a TV show they like the same things, so it's very handy for me. This morning they were handing things to each other and saying oh thank you, can I have that please, oh thank you, it melted my heart. Its busy but they're great kids, very happy and only get really difficult if they're tired. I wouldn't have it any other way :)Quote:
Originally Posted by pinkin2011
Needagirl I don't seem to be losing hair but my friend did in her last pregnancy and I think she was told it can be related to a mineral or vitamin deficiency. This could definitely be related to diet. My friend is fine now, so maybe get checked and see if you need extra supplements.
This part of pregnancy is kinda boring. lol. Don't get me wrong, I love feeling the baby move! But its somewhat uneventful now. Shopping is all done. :P
I agreeQuote:
Originally Posted by fivebabies
I also feel like this pregnancy for me is dragging :sigh:
I havent bought hardly anything! I need to get on it! I am sure there will be no baby showers this time which I dont expect. It is my 3rd baby. But of course, I need all new clothes and since it has been 5.5 years since I had a baby and everything was from DS1, I don't have anything and I am starting over! So I definitely have some buying to do! (either that or I could just keep her "swaddling clothes" - it will be almost Christmas after all.
Hey sweet sister, NOT the mongan one. It's ok but nothing like as thorough as Hypnobabies. Am on my phone but when I have the computer on next I'll post some links.
Funny that I was wondering about my hair the other day. I'm not losing it any faster but in previous pregnancies I've barely lost any at all, so this feels different.
Amari, that woman should be disciplined! I hope someone listened to your complaint. How dare she?!!
OMG...I'm soooooo bored! Has being pregnant always been so dull? I've got to control the urge to shop. The baby already has about 10 pairs of shoes, which he will probably never wear. But they're terribly cute.Quote:
Originally Posted by fivebabies
Ack! I love baby shoes Yuzu! Post a pic please!!!
I know, this baby already has way too much to wear for the first 3 months of life. I have to really hold back now.
I think that its been more boring than my other pregnancies because we were focusing on swaying, timing, testing way too early (lol!) then counting the days until we could get a nub shot then counting the days until our gender scans....now that all of that is over we just sit and wait.
But I cannot wait to meet this baby! So fun to think about having a brand new, delicious smelling baby in our arms at Christmas time!!! :)
I lined up the shoes to take a pic. All of these except for one pair are brand new with tags. I have got to stop!
Sorry for the bad pic:
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Soooooo cute, Yuzu!!!
how is everyone doing? Overall I feel pretty good. Nausea is finally gone, energy is pretty good. I do feel pretty huge already. It doesn't bother me so much in the day but by the time I go to bed my back hurts and I feel like a beached whale, thrashing around for a few minutes until I get comfortable. Lol. I see my midwife on tuesday. I am curious to see how I am measuring. At my last visit, I was measuring 3 weeks ahead!
Finally moved all of ds2's clothes into ds1's room as they are going to share now. They seem pretty happy about it which is good. I was able to pull all the bins of baby clothes out of the basement. I have 12 large bags of boy clothes that I am bringing to my neice later this week. Kind of sad going through it all. I saved a couple special outfits that I have fond memories of them wearing. We have decided this is the last baby. The practical side of me knows that is a good thing... Not sure my heart totally agrees...
I feel like mine is dragging again too. LOL It sucks!Quote:
Originally Posted by dloui128
I also feel huge. I head back to work this week and no one knows I'm pregnant there. (I'm a teacher and was off all summer.) I'm dreading the insensitive comments already. I've never been a thin, cute pregnant person.
For those of you who work outside of the home, what week do you work until? I typically work until 36 weeks but was hoping to go to 38 so I get paid for Thanksgiving Break.
I work right up until I deliverQuote:
Originally Posted by NewYorkmom
I am so tired and so sore by the end of the night I can barely move, I don't remember it being like this with my first two, I don't know how I am going to be able to hold up for another 15 weeks :sigh:Quote:
Originally Posted by NeedAGirl!
I also work until the bitter end! With DS1, I worked until 8pm, and went into labor at 11PM. I had a very rapid labor so with DS2, I stopped working at 39 weeks but then ended up being 8 days late! Doh! I regretted sitting at home. With the US's stupid policies on maternity leave, I dont want to use any time before baby if I can help it. I am not sure what I will do with this baby. My last labor was literally 1 hour - was sitting on the couch, feeling fine, eating a bowl of cereal at 4:45PM. Went to the bathroom, my water broke and he was born at 5:46! I currently work about 30 minutes from home so I will probably stop working on my due date if I have not had her yet.
i am feeling huge too and my back is killing me....I have been feeling like crap and pretty sure I have gestational diabetes again...yuck!! I did the test on Friday so I will find out this week....Also I should get a section date this month....This is my last baby as well...I am getting a tubal durning my section....Had another u/s at my OB office and he confirmed 100% girl...We are going to start her room soon....Time is dragging for me as well....
I have been feeling the same way NeedAGirl!....and this is my 5th! I think its going to be sad for any mom to realize that its their baby. I think I would feel the same sadness if it were my 10th. But this is the right time for us to stop as well. I just turned 32 and just want to enjoy my family.
Speaking of nurseries, I totally splurged... Which is ok because I have barely spent any $ on this babe. I went with this awesome shop on Etsy. Check her out.. makes custom nursery set. We are going with a lavender theme. (how fitting, right? after all my lavender soap!) Mellissa's Boutique by mellissasboutique on Etsy
Pretty stuff! :) Makes me wish we didn't co-sleep just so I had a reason to buy a crib set! lol.
BTW, doesn't our "baby" in our ticker look freaky this week? lol.