Due in June/July/August 2016

Big congrats mamacass!! So happy for you!! [emoji177][emoji166][emoji882] She's beautiful!!

Luvmyfam - good luck at your anatomy scan! I bet little man is perfectly happy and healthy!

Fiya - super cute bedding!!

Milybaby - I'm so sorry you're feeling so down; GD is a horrible feeling. I agree with others that it's neither you nor hubby's fault, and knowing how you feel, I would definitely recommend getting him tested and going into HT knowing everything. It sounds like you have a great plan to begin after this baby, which will give you something to look forward to (as well as your new baby!). I can't wait to follow your journey and see your little ones!


Team green baby due May 21! [emoji170][emoji166]

Thankyou ladies. I'm a bit tired as I've been waking up in the middle of the night being suprised all over again that I'm am actually having a pink one!

Good luck with your scan Luvmyfam x

I know what u mean mamacass
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Mom to two princes
Princess in belly

Hi ladies, Thank u for ur support. I'm terribly sad and don't feel well. I wake up in the morning Thinking I don't want this child. Perhaps someone Will love him? But for now I don't I am not feeling anything for this baby... I don't want to take care of him, to feed him, I don't know how I'm gonna do. I can't think of a name for him, i Have already 2 boys and the first one is really difficult... And I don't see how I'm gonna do with à Baby? I searched about abortion but I don't want to kill him, I don't want him to be sad or to feel What I'm feeling. I know he is here and I can't do anything about that so I searched to deliver and to give him to a family who Will love him as much as he deserves.
I feel I'm fool to say that. How am I gonna do? i don't Have the courage of anything. It was not supposed to be this way. I wanted 3rd children if It was a girl. I didn't know I Will react like that...
Sometimes I feel better and I think everything is gonna be ok but sometimes I don't and am in total despair...

Xxx

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Originally Posted by Milybaby

Hi ladies, Thank u for ur support. I'm terribly sad and don't feel well. I wake up in the morning Thinking I don't want this child. Perhaps someone Will love him? But for now I don't I am not feeling anything for this baby... I don't want to take care of him, to feed him, I don't know how I'm gonna do. I can't think of a name for him, i Have already 2 boys and the first one is really difficult... And I don't see how I'm gonna do with à Baby? I searched about abortion but I don't want to kill him, I don't want him to be sad or to feel What I'm feeling. I know he is here and I can't do anything about that so I searched to deliver and to give him to a family who Will love him as much as he deserves.
I feel I'm fool to say that. How am I gonna do? i don't Have the courage of anything. It was not supposed to be this way. I wanted 3rd children if It was a girl. I didn't know I Will react like that...
Sometimes I feel better and I think everything is gonna be ok but sometimes I don't and am in total despair...

Xxx

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Huge hugs!!!

It's totally ok to feel the way you do! Let it all out! Don't suppress your feelings- allow yourself to work through them. You don't have to have it all worked out right now and that's ok! Give yourself the time to grieve. You might not begin to bond with him until he arrives, and that too is ok!

Hang in there sweetie! The darkest times are right now, I promise! It WILL get better! Just take each day at a time. Know there are two things going on right now. 1. You are grieving the loss of a dream to have a daughter and 2. The disappointment of having a third boy. It's important to realize there are two things going on here. Sometimes we lump things together when we are in despair. Realizing there are two things going on can allow you to begin to work on them once you are able.

I too had a challenging 1st child- he never slept through the night until he was 2.5 years old, and he needed constant interaction with us. He was not one to play independently. Know that this child you are pregnant with will be different! He will have his own personality.

Take deep breaths when things feel super bad and be kind to yourself right now. We are here for you!

Huge hugs [emoji8]!


[emoji170]DS1[emoji1379], DS2[emoji577], & DS3[emoji602] completes our family![emoji170]

Hi Mily - I just wanted to jump in and say that I wish things were different for you and I'm sorry you're having such a hard time. I think XX is right and all the emotions are so complicated and you have to sort through them and share how you feel. Don't feel bad about what you feel. You're having a hard time right now but you won't feel this way forever. Hugs to you.

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Sorry u r feeling this way milybaby. I am not going to be of much help to u since i myself am dealing with GD. I am hoping time will heal us both and we will be able to give this child the love he/she deserves.

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Congratulations mammacass

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I wish I had some comforting words for you Mily. I completely understand how you're feeling, hearing boy for the third time was so hard for me. I fell head over heels in love with him when he was born but the GD was still very present. I was determined to ignore it for his first year but it was always there, lurking. DH was adamant that we were having no more too and I struggled with that so badly. It is so important to acknowledge that GD is very separate from the love you have for your children. Do you do any crafts at all? I found throwing myself into knitting a few cardigans for him really helped and for the first time I enjoyed buying blue. I felt like I needed it to scream to the world proudly that I had three boys. I couldn't bear the question of boy or girl when he was a baby so by making it very obvious I avoided it. Please be very kind to yourself and don't do anything rash. Xxx

Three beautiful boys and my longed-for DD due in June 2016!

Mily.... it's really hard for me to hear what you said in your last post. Think about your boys and how much you love and adore them. You will love and adore this one just as much. He's your baby boy. I think you need to name him. That helped me a lot. But I also think you need some counseling. You've been through a terrible loss already and now you're grieving another "loss" of the baby girl you hoped for. You really need to process all of this grief. Thoughts and prayers for you. I hope you can see that you will love this little guy.