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Dont be down hun,it is just to early because boy and girl nubs are identical at this stage Embryo Development external genital sex organs - angle of the dangle boy or girl ultrasound gender scan - Baby2see Chin up buttercup you have time still before the guessing can start:flowerz:
Like Nuthinbutpink said both boy and girl nubs look the same before 11 weeks, I think you have a great shot at having a girlQuote:
Originally Posted by toomanyboys
I don't understand the overreaction. Nothing has happened or changed since the day before. We are telling you it's simply too early. Go at 13 weeks and get a nub shot and no need to worry until after that. You certainly don't need to get rid of any girl stuff yet.
LOL....i know...but you know how it is....i just feel i wuld overly blessed if i had the girl i wished for...it just seems too good to be true....and you know i am not one that has miracles happen everyday....my DD was a complete shock and blessing....i still look at her today and think is she for real???and she is 4!!!!....the idea that i will have another DD is almost impossible to imagine for me now....if my scan came back with no nub showing and no hint of either (whihc is what my DD@s) was like..then i wouldn't overreact like this....the fact i have proof in my hand the fact that one pic is very boyish the other is 50/50 and am told it can change to a boy nub yet....is not giving me any confidance.....its lamost like i have accepted defeat....i can read so many peopl'es nubs quite confidantly and and lean towrs one or the other...comes my bloddy scan and it turns out so unconvincing either way...iykwim?......i suppose i just wanted some kind of reassurance today...in my onw mind..let me post you the other pic....i am told by conographer it is part of the leg....but then i am thinking i have seen enough nub shots to know this can only mean one thing.....i am so so sorry to bring down the mood...:(...i will try and work at my negativity....promise....
so sorry
Most women on here would consider you extremely lucky and blessed because you have children of both genders already. That is a blessing and for some, a miracle.
There's just no way to know gender at this stage.
it looks like part of the leg to me
Have you looked at the link sweet sister posted? At 10-11 weeks the boy and girl nubs look identical. You can't know if you have a boy or girl cooking in there yet, it's just too early!!! :)
Hugs to you, I know it's hard to wait, but try not to even analyze it yet until your baby is older and you go back for your nuchal or anatomy scan. :heart:
i sense that your a bit annoyed with me...already....i am sorry..i really don't mean to offend...i know and am utterly greatful for all i have got...but this baby was totally unexpected...and tbh both hubby and i didn't really want to risk having another baby in case it is a boy....hubby was just happy to have the 4 now...but i was in the midts of convincing him to do PGD with me but then i found out i have PCOS and also that i don't ovulate....i was told to take clomid to kick start a normal cycle for a couple of months and see if it helps me with ovualtion so if i wanted to PGD (in greece next year) then i needed to get myself ovulating again....i did all this with no real intention to get pregnant naturally but the month i was told i am not Oand i didn't have a proper cycle eaither just spotting.... i took it easy...and bam...here i am....Quote:
Originally Posted by nuthinbutpink
so ou can understand now that i am i first worried to have this baby stick but all along i alwasy told myself that a dd would be prefereed over a boy.....obviously my son;s are a blessing for me..they all play together and they all get long nicely make me immensily proud..my ds3 and dd also play nicely together but there have already been a hadful of times where she has moaned she feels left out on some of the games the boys don;t feel like involving her in as she tends to cry too easily and feels a too scacred...it is at moments like these i feel having a boy now is going to beat that purpose....he will be hte youngest there will be a 6 year gap between him and his youngest brother (so by the time he i 5 his youngest brother will be a teenager) and 2 he has an older sister who would prefer girly things....you know....i obviously know that things fall into place and and everything will be OK..eventually but the dissapintemnt will linger still if that is the case.....both for myself and my ds4 and dd. ultimately he will be just as welcomed and loved too...and yes the one thing i can look forward to is new clothes and bedding....:)
Everyone here says its too early so I say you start from scratch, it could be either or AND I would say for you to wait until birth to find out or you will be miserable for the rest of your pregnancy and that is a waste of your time!
Even if u felt lonely as a child, won't make your children's that way! I know girls with all brothers and they loved being the only girl, very protected! Gender dissaointment is hard... But you don't have a gender yet so I think you are getting ahead of yourself! Things might turn out exactly how you imagined, you just can't know at this point!
maybe i should go ahead with the NT then? i suppose i can deal with the outcome for longer...maybe by 35 weeks i will be all overwhelmed with love and joy for ds4..:)
ahhhhh...GD not a good thing...i wish i never had it...at all......ds1 and d2 where bliss all round...no GD no fear just happy to have happy healthy babies....grrrrr..i need a good ickup my backside....