eight years of gd:-(

You are not alone! I have 2 boys and all I can think about is how I would feel if and when I end up w. another boy! it's like Im just waiting to hear..another boy! I will be devasted I will never feel complete and will suffer GD for the rest of eternity~ ! just yesterday I was telling Dh about how I felt and he got really annoyed w. me! he told me that I need to grow up and stop being so selfish. that I should be grateful I have 2 healthy, loving boys.

You see, I haven't been too involved w. my boys lateley. I want that baby girl so badly that I get annoyed w. my boys and wish I could go back in time and had known about swaying then..I know i'm such a horrible mom!...I'm such a mess right now! I am harrassing atomic w. stupid questions. I am changing my mind between HT, taking clomid, vitex etc...just b.c I reallllly want to increase my chances of getting a girl. and when I hear that someone took clomid or vitex and endup w. a boy I get soo sad and think same will happen to me!..I have been on site for 11 months and been on the diet ..lost all the weight I could, but backed out couple of months b/c I was afraid I would get another boy!:( I know, really sad!

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Originally Posted by Wishing4Princess

You are not alone! I have 2 boys and all I can think about is how I would feel if and when I end up w. another boy! it's like Im just waiting to hear..another boy! I will be devasted I will never feel complete and will suffer GD for the rest of eternity~ ! just yesterday I was telling Dh about how I felt and he got really annoyed w. me! he told me that I need to grow up and stop being so selfish. that I should be grateful I have 2 healthy, loving boys.

You see, I haven't been too involved w. my boys lateley. I want that baby girl so badly that I get annoyed w. my boys and wish I could go back in time and had known about swaying then..I know i'm such a horrible mom!...I'm such a mess right now! I am harrassing atomic w. stupid questions. I am changing my mind between HT, taking clomid, vitex etc...just b.c I reallllly want to increase my chances of getting a girl. and when I hear that someone took clomid or vitex and endup w. a boy I get soo sad and think same will happen to me!..I have been on site for 11 months and been on the diet ..lost all the weight I could, but backed out couple of months b/c I was afraid I would get another boy!:( I know, really sad!

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Totally understand where you are coming from here. I did the same thing/felt the same way while swaying. If I had a piece of advice right now though (being pregnant with boy #3 after failed sway), if you *really* want that girl, and can afford it, and really don't want more than 3 kids....go for the HT now. At least it is a guarantee. I wish we had done HT for this one. I guess I just thought if I changed things enough, we would just get our girl. Wrong :(

I had over 20 years of GD, after my first daughter died. It took us a long time to have Baby Crystal (she's 8 months old now), but so worth it.

Never give up :wink:

CrystalTipps - Do you mind if I ask you a bit more about how/why you came to decide on DE? I have lots of questions - as you can see from my sig/posts I think I am heading towards DE. (giving up is not an option for me!)

I would so appreciate more info from you if it's ok?

Thank you

What do you mean by "high risk" in regards to HT? Are you talking about multiples? You can only put back one embryo to eliminate that risk. We have lots of women travel to the US from the UK for IVF.