I'm so sorry mum23boys... When I posted I was being completely dumb and didn't realise you suffered a loss. My heart goes out to you Hun. I miscarried last year after swaying for pink. I am so sorry if I upset you by posting x
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I'm so sorry mum23boys... When I posted I was being completely dumb and didn't realise you suffered a loss. My heart goes out to you Hun. I miscarried last year after swaying for pink. I am so sorry if I upset you by posting x
3boys - Its fine - Im ok at the moment - these things happen and it was obviously for a reason. - I will just keep trying and will still be team green :-) ( Though i need to get my ass back on the diet cos i took 2 weeks off when i got my BFP and whilst ive been grieving for the loss ) Tomorrow is a new start, a new week and hopefully the month of a new pregnancy :-)
For a week I was fairly sure I wanted to avoid finding out the sex, however I now realize I'm going to be too impatient! But eventually I do want to be Team Green with one of my babies.
We're contemplating a Gender Reveal party for possibly January/February, so we'd obviously have to know in that instance. ;)
Hubby and I will not be finding out with the next one (swaying for girl in Feb) should we be blessed to get pregnant again. I know it sounds crazy because you go through all the extras to try to have a little princess then you want to wait to see if it worked. I just want to wait til the day of that way when I see the baby boy or girl it wont matter :) Plus boy or girl it is our last (I said that once already!) so one surprise would be wonderful!Quote:
Originally Posted by Mum23boys
Good Luck and I hope you get the little princess you so deserve :) :fx:
I have decided to go team green for your same reasons mum23boys! I can't handle the disappointment and I know my heart will melt when I meet this baby. I really feel it is a boy so I know not to get my hopes up at all.
Geez you ladies make me second guess my decision to find out! I am literally going crazy though not knowing.
I agree! I just know I can't make it without finding out lol! I love the idea but I just don't have the patience!Quote:
Originally Posted by Rosie85
Im going to have our 1st surprise and im pretty excited about it <3
I just dont know how people can find out - Id be too nervous to know and feel GD. Id rather not know- i think the waiting not knowing and impatient feeling is always going to be better than how id feel if i didnt hear pink !! Just my opinion though and can understand why some people would rather know its just not for me.
And I'm the opposite of you mum! Lol I don't know how people can wait that long!!! I guess it just depends how each person feels about GD and such too. Like I know personally for me, YES we definitely want a girl this time. We talk about it ALL THE TIME and did as much as possible to increase our odds, but as long as baby is healthy we will be more then happy! So for me I am counting down the days till my gender scan :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Mum23boys