they had a boy after 3 girls

I do not know how to get rid of the URl that keeps coming up if I put in facebook it autamatically displays that link. It is not underbookmarks or anything. I tried to put other links in but it still just keep popping up as most recent or something. I go on firefox for it. I do not know how to get rid of it. My husband has facebook. I do not.

I thought it would be better that I find out because my friend has many functions and if I would have gone to the last one I may have found out in person if the couple was there and she was pregnant and came along with her 3 girls. So knowing I was not able to be around the situation I did not go. But knowing is one thing. But until you know it is like how often do you go on to find out?

So I guess it is a way for me to find out things in advance. I guess it is not good though because how does it help me.

When you found out about these people, did you continue to go to functions, get togethers and places they would be knowing that they had the girl or the boy? KWIM?

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Originally Posted by bluedreams

I remember this post when you were stalking this woman on FB but you didn't know what she was having yet. I was hoping it would be another girl for your sake. I've had this done to me so many times. I used to stalk people on FB (people I barely knew) when I was pregnant with DD2. I would obsess over women who had a girl first like me and hoped they were having another girl. But, most of them had a boy after having a girl. It kept bringing me back to my GD so that's why I stopped. I felt like I was torturing myself and I was.

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Originally Posted by NYFamilyOfFiveRoses

I have a daugher also born in 2003. Is yours in 4th grade also? Then my other one is born 2006 and in 1st grade. Do you feel you have a lot to keep up with now with the homework and everything?

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My DD1 is in the 3rd grade, here kids start school at the age of 7, DD2 is in the preschool, and then there is 2.5 months old DD3 :worry: I feel VERY overwhelmed, it is def. super hard to keep up with everything. DD1 is bad in maths (just like her mommy lol!) s I have to spend some extra time in practicing mathematics with her :(

However I'm so happy to have 3 kids, I felt incomplete with 2 :) From this perspective, I think I would go for No3 even if I knew she was going to be a girl.

You sound like a super sensitive person, even vulnerable :HH: I'm sending you big, big hugs!!!!! :hugs:

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Originally Posted by Zivic-Bubac

My DD1 is in the 3rd grade, here kids start school at the age of 7, DD2 is in the preschool, and then there is 2.5 months old DD3 :worry: I feel VERY overwhelmed, it is def. super hard to keep up with everything. DD1 is bad in maths (just like her mommy lol!) s I have to spend some extra time in practicing mathematics with her :(

However I'm so happy to have 3 kids, I felt incomplete with 2 :) From this perspective, I think I would go for No3 even if I knew she was going to be a girl.

You sound like a super sensitive person, even vulnerable :HH: I'm sending you big, big hugs!!!!! :hugs:

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How come I sound like a super sensitive even vulnerable person? Is it because of the GD?

I am super sensitive in the way that when and if I go to an even with the friend's friend there her husband's sister I am so afraid will tell me about them having #4 and it being a boy and when will I try or something. I have not gone to any of their functions after she said about #3 being a girl and something about her telling somebody at her job that came in something about them having 5 boys and where is the other one and they said home.

And finally I resend my friend the e-mails and guess what she still does not answer. I feel she should understand. She knows me since my bad GD with DD1.

Thanks for the hugs and hug back to you.