How often should husband release month of TTC a boy?

Ok so what about when I'm not attempting like for the time being I could use condoms etc.. And when I in my cycle of attempt we let him release inside of me making sure we DTD every 2-4days so Monday DTD then Thursday and so on trying to make sure we stick to every 2-4days and avoid frequent release .. And then soon as I get my +opk go for gold and do 3more attempts in that fertile window?? But again there is chance of falling preggers with the previous releases is that right ? But I believe AS says timing doesn't sway isn't it

How did you ladies do your attempts ? What's the jump and dump thingy lol

afy you only fall pregnant after you ovulate, so the main aim is to get as much sperm in waiting for that to happen, and the best way is to DTD every 2-3 days then 3 times at O.

And jump and dump is a girl sway thing where they sit on the toilet after DTD to let most of the sperm come out, you dont need to worry about that.

Thank you sooo mch! I wasn't sure as to whethere we can or can't fall pregnant.. But I totally understand now! So it's safe for the time being to let him use condoms

Yep for now while you are not ttc you can use condoms :)

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Originally Posted by Cinss

And jump and dump is a girl sway thing where they sit on the toilet after DTD to let most of the sperm come out, you dont need to worry about that.

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LOL this reminds me of myself off to the toilet i would pop right after DTD .. When TTC my DD at this time had no idea about swaying and ovulation etc lol..

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Originally Posted by minimatron

Great...my husband wants to do it every day at the moment. I've got to get him to slow down! Only 1 week til our attempt and he's been releasing daily over the past 3 days!

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3 days in a row doesn't make or break anything, it's many days in a row.

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Originally Posted by afy

sorry i was abit confused does DH release without a condom in the month of attempt every 2-4 days? can we not get pregnant like that though before our 3 attempts?? :think:

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You can get pg from sperm deposited before ovulation, but remember that more sperm = more boys and you can't get pg before the egg comes out, so you will have added a ton more sperm to the mix from your 3 attempts after pos opk.

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Originally Posted by afy

LOL this reminds me of myself off to the toilet i would pop right after DTD .. When TTC my DD at this time had no idea about swaying and ovulation etc lol..

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Yep, don't do that for a boy - just lay there and go to sleep if you can, give it 15-30 min if you can't.