HELP! Will BD 4 times in 3 days lower sperm count and sway girl?

Onthepond,
Please don't worry about it. We're just happy you're here on GD. You'll find a lot of support here and gentle guidance with clear answers.
Congratulations on your sweet baby girl and wishing you lots of luck on your journey to conceive a healthy baby boy!! :)

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Originally Posted by onthepond

Ok, I feel terrible that all of this is happening off of my post. To be honest, I only posted on IG, too, because I wanted to see if anyone could respond...sometimes it takes a little while to hear from someone. Hubby and I have chosen to follow GD and the advice of Atomic and the other gals on here to help us try to conceive a boy and truly the only reason why we didn't BD one more time was because we felt really good about the 3 attemps we had already had in our fertile window (O-3, O-2, O-1).

Also, I want to share that although we would love to have a boy since we already have our perfect little girl, we would be more than excited and feel more than blessed to have another little girl, too. Honestly, we are truly just trying for a healthy baby...just trying to sway for a boy. Our girl was a one hit wonder before OV (not sure exactly when because I wasn't charting).

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Please don't feel bad (and son4meplz shouldn't feel bad either, she is entitled to her opinion.) or that you have to explain yourself in any way! It's YOUR sway and everyone has to do what they feel comfortable with above all else because otherwise people have regrets.

I think it's great that people have access both to the IG way of doing things and our way as well because honestly, none of us really even knows the hows and whys of swaying - it's all just educated guesses because so few reliable studies are done http://genderdreaming.com/forum/scie...s-swayers.html

I hope everyone investigates the sway tactics thoroughly and then decides what is best for them. :)