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I'm with the other girls. I wouldn't even discuss it with her. I'm not telling anyone Im TTC a girl. My sister plans on getting pregnant shortly and is the same way. If my sister has a girl, I'll be happy she gets that experience. But if I have one she'll be jealous. And be happy if I don't. Also with Wanting-a-girl, I'll be completely thrilled still if I get a boy. Some people cant have kids period. So I'm not going to let a little thing like sex get me down. Your friend seems like she wants you to be jealous, so don't completely shy a way. Ask about her daughter and see how she is.
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I think the whole situation is tricky. You know even if her intentions are not really that bad the whole situation sets you both up to be competetive and her to look like she is "the sway expert" I am in a VERY similar situation with my SIL and I am 99% sure she is preggers now (showing, not drinking) we both have all boys and she has said before her second would be a girl because I have all the boys What????? and she went on to have a boy. She is on chlomid and I fully expect this third one for her will be a girl....well I am DETACHING. I want to add to my family and I would love a girl and of course a fourth boy would be awesome, and if I am so wound up about what is going on with her I won't get pregnant AND my testosterone will be through the roof. I am so tired of the competition. It is everywhere. I just want to have my family and be happy so that is what I am choosing. GOOD LUCK these types of relationships SUCK!!!!! I hope everything turns out how you want! :fx:
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Some people slay me, honestly, how can making you feel bad make her feel better. I don't get it. I totally get feeling a bit jealous if a friend or relative get preggo with the DG you want, but I never wish ill will towards them and I never say things to them to make them feel bad. I'd certainly never try to intentionally sabotage their sway. I'd stay far away from her. If she asks just tell her that you aren't actively trying right now, maybe waiting until after vacation or something.
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sound like she wants you to go ahead and have another boy
from another mum of six boys to another i would take your time and dont rush into it
we have have been ttc for 10 going on 11 cycles af arrived for me a few days ago
all our boys were conceived very quickly within the first to third month of trying this is all very different to u but it's a positive thing because i feel like im not in a huge rush for it to happen.
FX we both get our little girls that we have waited a long time for :)
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agreed...doesnt sound like a great friend. All my friends understand my girl craziness and desperate need for a girl. I have four great little boys. Definately take a step back and do whats best for you! Make sure you are comfortable with YOUR sway and yes...take it slow and steady! I have my FXed for you!
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I'm sorry, your friend does not sound like a good friend.
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Oh yes i am taking things slow! With my boys i rushed to get pregnant. I am gonna diet and do everything i can to try to increase my odds for a girl. I am gonna step back from Her. I do not need the negatively. I am not in any way trying to be competitive at all with Her. I am yes jealous some, She finally got a girl but it sucks even more when She rubs it in my face. Funny how all of a sudden after Her saying NO MORE kids after having Her girl then She hears me talk about me giving it another chance ttc girl now She wanna try for another girl.
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Stay away fom her for awhile, don't make it obvious, ask about her DD??? GL, hate people like this...
