BD timing help PLEASE

good luck, might be worth investing in some quality OPKs (and making sure you have enough of them to test twice a day nearer OV time) if you try this approach!

Got my hands on some of them
Already.... Now just to wait :)

With my swayed DD (now 13 months) we BD everyday for about 10-12 days once i got a pos OPK we BD that night and stopped. now im swaying again, well i was but im not getting pregnant, so im not even really thinking about timing.

As O approaches I'm getting more and more nervous about BD timing :/ DH is a very active, high libido man... So this is why I have chosen AB as its something we don't do... We have regular sex so AB just makes sense? Right? Or am I just trying to convince myself lol... I wish there was a crystal ball to tell me what to do next week :(

we have seemingly been hhaving better results with bd only once so I would do either abstain and 1 attempt or fr with one attempt

best evidence indicates timing does not sway


can anyone post a link to the jellybean essay I'm on my kindle

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Originally Posted by MSBLAKELY

compressed frequent release. My understanding is that dh releases (on his own, or with your help..whatever) once or twice and then as soon as possible after that you make an attempt.. basically he's released so much that the amount of sperm will be very minimal. I could be wrong as I'm still new to this but I know thats what CFR stands for :)

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that is hurry up fr

for cfr he should hAve2-3 attempts for two to three days and then attempt

can someone post links for frequency

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Originally Posted by shel158

As O approaches I'm getting more and more nervous about BD timing :/ DH is a very active, high libido man... So this is why I have chosen AB as its something we don't do... We have regular sex so AB just makes sense? Right? Or am I just trying to convince myself lol... I wish there was a crystal ball to tell me what to do next week :(

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I think abstain with one attempt is a good sway both effective and easy to do as long as he is under 35

Thanks Atomic... That's what i planned from very beginning but when you start reading all
The info out there you begin to doubt everything...'I will still with AB and one attempt with a cut off...'thanks so much :)

Atomic should i do a 2-3 day cut off or BD when I get my positive opk? My cycle is generally an average of 27 days with O occurring on cycle day 16... By this time DH would have abstained for 14 days "hopefully".... His 30 years old, very active...

timing does not sway. bd only one attempt at pos opk.. cutoff does not sway and prevents pregnancy.
got my girl with bd at pos opk