I am an Aussie, so I will have a winter baby, but all my others have been too (two June, two July) so everything I have from them that isn't blue, will fit nicely. It would be lovely to have a Summer baby and take her for walks etc but I will be snuggled up at home again.
I cycled at home in Australia. Gender selection is actually banned here but like other Aussie ladies on the HT boards, I found a sneaky way around it. If that had not been possible, my back up plan was to cycle with Dr Potter at Huntington Reproductive Center in the USA. I am kind of disappointed I didn't go to the USA in a way, because I was looking forward to a Californian holiday. My DH has promised when our DD gets to a reasonable age we will go to Disneyland etc with all the children, with the money we saved by cycling at home.
I am sorry that it appears your sway for a girl has not worked. You never know at this point though, sonographers can get it wrong. But if your DS4 is on his way, I know you will fall in love with him from the moment he arrives. I was so in love with my DS3, and although I don't have a favourite, we are definitely the closest. Your last little boy will be the most precious thing. I really hope you can add your little girl into the mix.
And don't worry about the comments. The one thing I have learned from the ladies on these boards is that everybody gets them, regardless of their family make up. Even people with a pigeon pair get the "oh how perfect" comments. The girl mums get "oh your poor DH, no son" and the all boy mums like us get "oh you must have your hands full with all boys". I have not had anyone say anything negative about this pregnancy, but even if they do, I now realise it is strangers and acquaintances who are just trying to think of something to say most of the time.
