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Or just the "look" (you know the one with the blank expression and maybe a raised eyebrow or two), a big sigh, a little shake of the head, then walk away. Usually gets the message across.Quote:
Originally Posted by zibibbogirl
She's toxic, avoid if at all possible. :)
That woman needs to mind her manners, I think I would have asked her to leave. The annoying comments don't stop even after you have an opposite, the number of times I am told how lucky I was to have a girl after 2 boys!!!! Really????? I thought I was lucky three times to have three healthy, beautiful children :) You sound like an amazing mum to me with such a grateful attitude no matter what the gender of your fourth child is. All the best for a happy and healthy pregnancy x
IMO she has GD herself. Next time you can ask her if she wants to try again to get a boy lol and tell her how lucky you are to have 3 mummy's boys :)
Yes, I agree! Turn it round and give her a taste of her own medicine!! Like a sweet, "And how about you? Are you going to try again, see if you can get lucky for a boy? I think you'd make a *fantastic* boy mum!" (insert as much sarcasm as you feel appropriate...)
Sounds like she really wanted a boy and is projecting her own disappointment on to you. Bitter people are usually covering something painful. Not that this excuses her behaviour. Best you just ignore her silly remarks and be proud that despite your desire for a girl you are not hurtful to others and adore your boys!
That woman is awful. I am so sorry people can be so insensitive and rude, especially in front of your children. :/ you are 4times lucky! And I pray you will have the large beautiful family you desire.