What if you don't get pregnant this summer?

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Originally Posted by DoulaMama

Nope:) My hubby isn't getting any younger and I would really love to pursue my passions in a few years so I'm going keep trying until I'm pregnant. I'm actually at peace with a fourth boy:) Some days this swaying stuff kinda gets on my nerves and I just want to say "screw it!"...and just get preggo with whatever I'm meant to have:) Others....like today, I see my friends little girl in a sweet little dress and apron, helping her mommy bake cookies...and I would do whatever I needed to do to get my girl. Sigh.

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That part never goes away even when you are 100% totally at peace. I WISH it did!!!!!

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Originally Posted by kaseybaby

Summer is the best time to sway for a girl.

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I just want to point out that I disagree with this. IG says that summer is best for a girl but the scientific data indicates that late winter/early spring are best for a girl and late summer/early fall are best for a boy. (That is in the Northern Hemisphere. If you live in the Southern Hemisphere, it is the exact opposite.)

Even then, the statistical variation is really not THAT much and I don't think anyone should ever build a sway around the seasons if it interferes with your life and plans.

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/show...-swaying/page3

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Originally Posted by mommy*duke

whats the deal with ttc this summer?

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Oh, plus I think some people have paranoia about "solar flares."

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Originally Posted by pastelpicnic

I was just thinking that today KB. I'm really not sure?? I'm have the situation as Purplepoet as far as age and SAHM, but the older my boys get I get more comfortable and not to mention there are some things that I would like to have done to my body and my DH is 7yrs. older then me. So I was thinking that I would try through Sept. Who knows though? Maybe by that time I will just be sooo frustrated that I will just want to be preggo and start BD'ing through O.

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I would 10000000 times rather you BD through O than give up on diet. If you start getting lax on diet, it's time to regroup and drop timing because timing probably doesn't even sway at all and the longer you go on getting BFN's, you're more likely to give up on diet because it's tough to stick to.

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Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush

I just want to point out that I disagree with this. IG says that summer is best for a girl but the scientific data indicates that late winter/early spring are best for a girl and late summer/early fall are best for a boy. (That is in the Northern Hemisphere. If you live in the Southern Hemisphere, it is the exact opposite.)

Even then, the statistical variation is really not THAT much and I don't think anyone should ever build a sway around the seasons if it interferes with your life and plans.

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/show...-swaying/page3

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Okay. SO now you threw me for a loop, ha! It is like I have to erase everything I learned from IG, which is actually good because IG stressed me out way more then the info on this site does. :)

The only thing that is forbidden here is STRESS! But don't stress if you're stressed, send your stress to me and I will stress for you!!

Here is the link to the essay that deals with the seasons. http://genderdreaming.com/forum/show...ns-and-swaying

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Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush

The only thing that is forbidden here is STRESS! But don't stress if you're stressed, send your stress to me and I will stress for you!!

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You're so sweet, Atomic! I know you're not really swaying/TTC now but I hope a sweet little one just kind of slips in and surprises you...:cool::awe:;)