Anyone else slightly scared to get pg again?

I was absolutely petrified. But if you don't fall pregnant, there is no chance of getting your boy, if you do, you have at least a 50% chance of success, even if you do nothing else.
And a 100% chance of a baby who you will love regardless even if you don't like that you didn't get your dream gender.

I feel like that sometimes too. Too many what ifs. :/ I just wish I could know for sure what the outcome will be.

I was too scared to get pregnant again and use my last chance at a daughter after 3 boys and I was almost going to let dh get the snip. next thing im pregnant! universe has decided for me I don't know what im having yet and im scared of my feelings if it's a boy but I also feel blessed to be having one more... such a mixture of feelings argh.....

I'm already dreading the gender ultrasound and I'm not even pregnant yet, nor even TTC again for another month or two. I really want a DD2, but if it's a boy, I wish I could just know already that it will so I can start being OK with it. The waiting is so hard.

i have major baby fever but am scared to have another boy. I love my son, but I yearn for a daughter next.

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Originally Posted by missmegrn

The thought of 3dds makes me nervous, but obviously to have a shot at what I want I need to get pg and take that chance. When/if I do get pg, it will most likely be my last and I know that more than likely I cannot afford to go HT.

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I sure am I've been doubting myself and have had a fw arguments with my dh when I tell him "let's just keep it this way" he gets so upset, but I know I would be upset in the longrun for not even trying. All I can do is pray and leave it and God's hands. I can only give it a try at swaying (it won't hurt to try)...just makes me nervous as heck! lol

I am kinda nervous. Nothing is guaranteed