Why is everyone getting girls?

I total agree I wonder why not me I'm having my 4th girl and DH has said no more, I only wanted one little blue but now ill always wonder what I'd done wrong to not get one

On bad GD days (like I've been having lately) I wonder sometimes why we don't all just trade! Like wouldn't that be so perfect? I've always wanted to adopt... I wish it were so simple LOL

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Originally Posted by Charlee

On bad GD days (like I've been having lately) I wonder sometimes why we don't all just trade! Like wouldn't that be so perfect? I've always wanted to adopt... I wish it were so simple LOL

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Lol I've always thought that would be so much easier

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Originally Posted by Charlee

On bad GD days (like I've been having lately) I wonder sometimes why we don't all just trade! Like wouldn't that be so perfect? I've always wanted to adopt... I wish it were so simple LOL

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LOL my friend and I were due on the same day - I was having DS2 and she was having DD2. We joked about swapping at the hospital but were also a bit like ... Why not?!!!! Obviously glad I didn't now but at the time ;)

Girls - I feel EXACTLY like this too, terrible GD - and feeling like an awful person for feeling GD too! I should feel lucky and blessed with my life.

...and my only sister is due on Aug 12th - am dreading how i will feel if she has a girl. It's her 1st baby and she doesn't care either way, although would prefer a boy! How ironic - I bet she has a girl.

I feel so guilty that I will feel jealous of my sister - who I am very close to - but i cannot help how I feel.

Such a relief that we have this site where we can be honest and see that other people feel the same way - we are not bad people for feeling GD.

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Originally Posted by outnumberedbyboys

Oh me too. I'm in a really bad place today with gd and jealousy. My cousins just had a girl after 2 boys, this is exactly what I wanted. It's just like these people say what they want and get it. I have 3 boys and gd came like a smack in the face with ds3. I love him so so much but I'm so pathetically jealous of all those around me (which is everyone I know this year) has girls. I literally hate them and I take it personally. I had to go through fertility treatment for my first two, 3 miscarriages and yet somehow I don't get a girl?? I hate feeling like this and hate my thoughts but it takes over. I'm so sorry you are going through this as well life's so unfair at times. I also hate myself for feeling like this as I once faced the possibility I might never have any children so I feel like I don't really have a right to be jealous. I want to be genuinely happy for people :(

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I could have written this, but I have only one son. It took us 5 years to conceive him and with ART + meds and a miscarriage right before him. I am thankful I am but I am scared I will never have a daughter. And I too take it personally. Like at Gymboree the other day, I complimented a baby girl's outfit to her mom and she was like "thank you! I find that boys clothes are boring! I love having all these colors!!" I felt like she was insulting me, but I know she wasn't! It's horrible. I hate feeling this way too. I feel so guilty.

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Originally Posted by luckyfourleafclover

Girls - I feel EXACTLY like this too, terrible GD - and feeling like an awful person for feeling GD too! I should feel lucky and blessed with my life.

...and my only sister is due on Aug 12th - am dreading how i will feel if she has a girl. It's her 1st baby and she doesn't care either way, although would prefer a boy! How ironic - I bet she has a girl.

I feel so guilty that I will feel jealous of my sister - who I am very close to - but i cannot help how I feel.

Such a relief that we have this site where we can be honest and see that other people feel the same way - we are not bad people for feeling GD.

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Yes I felt so alone and selfish in my thoughts and feelings. I am glad to have found this place too!

I know Im the opposite to you but I know how you feel cause everyone around me is having boys!!

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Originally Posted by Emily

LOL my friend and I were due on the same day - I was having DS2 and she was having DD2. We joked about swapping at the hospital but were also a bit like ... Why not?!!!! Obviously glad I didn't now but at the time ;)

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Same my friend had her 3rd boy and I had my 3rd girl and we joked about swapping too!

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Originally Posted by aftmjt

I total agree I wonder why not me I'm having my 4th girl and DH has said no more, I only wanted one little blue but now ill always wonder what I'd done wrong to not get one

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Hey aftmjt Im just a little confused cause you say you're having your 4th girl but in your signature there is a blue bear??