Looks like Girl#4 is on the way

mamato3girls - I can only imagine what you are going through. My last two have been boys and I want a girl so desperately bad, it's all I think about day and night. I was the EXACT same gestational age and my UT guessed boy from a potty shot. Didn't even LOOK at the angle of the nub. BOO! So now I am going INSANE because I don't know if it's a good guess and I should be preparing for another boy or if I should just leave it at 50/50. I am so sorry that you are going through this terrible gender disappointment. It is such a horrible thing to go through when we are trying so hard to be happy through our pregnancy. My fingers are crossed that nub grows!

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Originally Posted by akeh4

Hi I know exactly how your feeling. As everyone had said you will love whatever sex you have been blessed with but it is natural to feel disappointed.
We have just gone through PGD for a girl as we have 3 boys, it was successful and baby is due in a month. We were told at 16 weeks looked like a boy which we didn't believe due to PGD. The at 20 weeks no is a girl. We have had the past 3 months getting ready for the birth of our little girl filling our house with all that's pink only to be told 3 days ago its a boy. As you can imagine it feels like a double edged sword, it feels like a death has happened in the family but of course there is the blessing of a birth approaching. At the moment though I am still grieving .

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Hi
Im sorry im not trying to be nosey but where did you have the pgd done?

My nub pics looked girly too and at 19 weeks found out it was all BOY!

I don't put much stock in nub shots...I know someone who had a girl looking nub (the tech even measured the angle) and ended up having a boy. That being said I know how it feels to be disappointed, even at this early stage. I'm 13 weeks and I just have a strong feeling this is a boy...so strong that I'm already mourning not having a girl.