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It's funny though because so many ladies on here think of 3 girls as the perfect family! :) The all girl families I know are awesome and amazing. But I know that doesn't help really- it's the type of thing where you come to peace with it or you don't and only you guys can truly know where you stand there. Wishing you the very best and huge congrats on a healthy baby girl.
I disagree with the drama part. It all depends how you raise them. My daughters are like any other kids that bicker but are great girl. When my older girls wake up earlier than I they take on mommy duty, and feed my youngest. They will change her clothes, put her shoes and sometimes invite her to take a shower. In other words shes all nice and mix matching dresses lol. But in the end they are great behaved girls and I or my dh would never ever ever changed them for a boy in the world. I also want to add that they have my dh super spolied and pampered. Anything daddy wants daddy gets. A cup of water, a foot massage, a back scratch or hand him a tool he has all of his little helpers by his side 100%. Dont feel bad, my husband is an only boy and only has one sister and she just had her 4th daughter (yup 4 girls) and my dh and I have 3 girls :) With our last sway this time around will only be for fun but if its another girl, she will will complete us ( maybe) depending on how scared my uterus is after 3 c-sections. If a 5th is a go im definetly going for it even its another girl. I always wanted a large family just like mine. Congrats again. Praying you have a healthy pregnancy and healthy baby girl :)
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I don't agree with the drama part at all. Maybe if you are dramatic, they may emulate you but girls do not automatically equal drama.
Once you meet this little one and get to know her, you and he will feel just fine. A sister is a great gift. I would probably not be BF if you were to try again because it is known to sway girl.
Congrats on your DD.
I have 2 dds. You will love their sister relationship. He will too. It is hard for men to bond with an unborn baby! He will. My DH wants a boy but adores his daughters. They adore him so much, in turn. My first sway was an opposite (IG style- led to DD2) but you can always sway again.
:rofl: What can I say?? I think 3 kids of mine and DH would be chaotic no matter what. We are strong personalities and so are our kids!Quote:
Originally Posted by Rabbitmama85
Congrats on a little girl. Nothing in the world like a sister!!
That's probably us. Dd is such a huge drama queen already. I'm just imagining two of them telling me to stop talking and leave her alone. She's 2.5 going on 16, and a little spit fire already.Quote:
Originally Posted by Adia
I did sort of push this second kid on dh, I wanted two closer together (3 years), but if we decide again, it will all be on him. I'm only 29, so we have a while to decide if we want more and I don't know if I will want to sway again. It was incredibly stressful on us to make our sex limits with dd around, and not very much fun most of the time. We fought about it often. So if we do it again, it may be more ntnp. We'll see...I know too much about fertility to just ignore my body.