New here, third boy...

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Originally Posted by Mrs.tinkerbell

I dont have a reason to look in this forum but whilst swaying I always seem to as I did think id be in this situation too. I have a friend with 4 boys who is not having anymore but had extreme gd with her 2nd 3rd and 4th boy however now she can say she's so over it and never looks back or dreams of a girl, I did tell her about my sway and this site and she said even if someone could say she was 100% having a girl she wouldn't sway still she's finally happy with what she has. Hope u don't have to wait to long to meet you new beautiful boy and these feelings go away quickly x

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Thank you :) I'm really hoping that the feelings will disappear like last time. My dh has agreed to swaying and whatever else my crazy mind comes up with. So, we may have our girl in a few more years. My cousin just had her fourth boy and he is so cute. I'm not very close with her so I've never mentioned my gd, and I have no idea if she has it. I do know they are also done having kids. If we were to have another boy after this little guy, I know for the sake of our marriage, sanity and finances we would call it quits. I've had a hard few days this past week. I'll feel like I'm starting to let it go, and then my sil comes over (who knows about my gd) and is showing me little dresses on Pinterest. Sometimes she is just blissfully unaware, and got the hint after I responded to the third picture with "uh huh" anyway, sorry for rambling and thank you for responding. :)

:( I am sorry, I know exactly how you feel. I am pregnant with baby #3 and I know it's going to be a boy. But this pregnancy is different than my other 2 and it is making think that this is my last baby. The possibility of never having my girl is more hurtful than the possibility of hearing boy :/ DS#2 I had terrible GD, I didn't bond with him until 6 months into his life :(
This one, I feel I have no right feeling GD, I got pregnant without knowing I could be pregnant, my mirena fell out and my DH didn't tell me about it. He thought we had "more time" since it is birth control and the chemicals were still present blah blah blah. Then we thought we lost the baby when I started cramping and bleeding only to find out that it wasn't the case and that I was still very much pregnant. It makes me feel unappreciative of this little life growing inside of me :(

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Originally Posted by GreaseMonkey

:( I am sorry, I know exactly how you feel. I am pregnant with baby #3 and I know it's going to be a boy. But this pregnancy is different than my other 2 and it is making think that this is my last baby. The possibility of never having my girl is more hurtful than the possibility of hearing boy :/ DS#2 I had terrible GD, I didn't bond with him until 6 months into his life :(
This one, I feel I have no right feeling GD, I got pregnant without knowing I could be pregnant, my mirena fell out and my DH didn't tell me about it. He thought we had "more time" since it is birth control and the chemicals were still present blah blah blah. Then we thought we lost the baby when I started cramping and bleeding only to find out that it wasn't the case and that I was still very much pregnant. It makes me feel unappreciative of this little life growing inside of me :(

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Oh hun, HUGE hugs to you. A few weeks before I found out I started to fill my registry with all boy stuff. I was hoping I was wrong, but nope. I'm starting to feel some relief, but we all know that can change just by a careless comment. His very first blanket came in the mail today, and it's so so cute. When our first ds was born he had a blanket with stars on it, and his first picture was taken on top of it. So when I was pregnant with ds 2 I suggested we do the same! So I registered for this really cute one, and a very good friend bought it for my shower. The one for our newest addition is great, and it helps me remember how much I wanted another baby in the first place. I still would have loved to get the pink one that was just like it though. I hope that this time if it is another little boy for you, that you can find small comforts like I have been. Take care :bighug: