Atomic, you have said those but you don't tell me that every day!!!!!! THAT is what annoys me!!
SAS, if I am having a girl, I will be over the moon and throw a hugeeee party!!! But I am trying to be realistic and embrace the fact that more likely it will be a boy so that I can avoid the extreme GD yk? Not that's a guaranteed that I won't have it bad but still! I am so happy for you btw :)
I think it's smart to go in prepared for the "worst" (having a healthy baby is of course never the "worst") it's much better than setting yourself up for a disappointment. I was so sure my DS 3 was a girl, I had set myself up for major disappointment!!!
Oh absolutely, I agree!!! I was also prepared with DS# 2 and it hit me really hard when the scan revealed he was a he but I am hoping this time around since I "thought" I had miscarried and I didn't, that I will be happy he is healthy!! Hoping to get a good nub shot at my NT appointment in London :)
Snipsnsnails both years I had girls, I think there was 1 boy born out of the group so it seems to run in trends and I've got comments such as 'you've missed your window there' re last year as at least 7 of the 10 pregnancies I knew of ended in a boy and a few of those were 2nd born. Gets me so annoyed when people regard DD2 as a consolation prize. I have spoke to a few of last years mummies (boy and girl) about diet and (though I didn't ask) position and from reading on here it collaborates with the end gender.
I think sensibly everyone should mentally prepare themselves to hear it may not be their desired gender but that doesn't mean by listening to anyone else's opinion.