You DON'T know. That is my point. I see so many people wait and wait and wait and wait as the months fly by and the fact of the matter is that none of us know how it works. So I do not want anyone to squander the limited and precious months out of their fertile window waiting for this "perfect" month that doesn't actually ever exist.
Waiting around months and years to TTC for your ducks to be in a row isn't allowed on this site! On the other sites there are people who have gone on swaying for 2 years only to get opposites, both TTC pink and TTC blue, and this is unacceptible.