Boy moms- What ways have you found to not obsess?

I love the idea of not timing the BD. I think that I will try that as well.

I researched like crazy but then set a deadline to have my sway ready by. I wrote out every little thing and so one my LE diet starts I am not going to research anymore, just stick to the plan!

I'm still putting my temp, cm, and OPK test result in FF but that's it.

Daily relaxation: read a novel, watch a show or movie, hot yoga, hot baths, a glass of wine, manicures and pedicures, massages, cup of tea, coffee with a friend, journaling, taking a nap when the kids do, hiring a house cleaner, saying "no" to projects/activites I know might stress me out,

I blocked all my FB friends who post statuses that frequently turn into heated debates and I only check FB once or twice a week.

Exercising 6-7 days a week has made me too tired to care!!

I am making a 2 week meal plan. I'm one of those people who can eat the same thing every day and not be bored so it will be much less stressful for me to just look at my menu each day and eat that and not count cals/fat/protein like a mad woman.

I struggle with this aspect. Not so much about my sway but I love to party plan and come up with extra projects at work to plan and obsess over. I love the planning and details aspects. Total Martha mess lol! I think I'm overall more laid back after having two boys so I'm hoping that works in my favor.

It is funny how many of us love to obsess and plan! All of my friends who have had only girls do tend to be more laid back.

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