I just need to talk about my niece to you

Ah thanks ever, gosh I really hope so.

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Hugs to you. I always tell my Sister she had better give me a niece one day but I know it will not be the same as she would never be mine, just a reminder.

I can't imagine what it must be like for those of you who have to work with your DG or have one who is close to you. I really worry how I will handle being a Midwife which is my dream job if I do not have a daughter of my own! Delivering girl babies. I am determined I need to have one. At least by not getting what I want so easily I will be able to be more understanding to Women going through GD

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Hugs to you. I always tell my Sister she had better give me a niece one day but I know it will not be the same as she would never be mine, just a reminder.

I can't imagine what it must be like for those of you who have to work with your DG or have one who is close to you. I really worry how I will handle being a Midwife which is my dream job if I do not have a daughter of my own! Delivering girl babies. I am determined I need to have one. At least by not getting what I want so easily I will be able to be more understanding to Women going through GD

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Having GD will help moms out so much in your role as a midwife. When I told my midwife I was having another boy her reaction was so "happy" I couldn't bear to be honest about my feelings about it due to her closed communication. If she had asked me how I felt about it I would have been able to vent to her and she could have been a support to me as I didn't respond well to the news at all and the guilt I had for my gender disappointment was beyond unhealthy.


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Having GD will help moms out so much in your role as a midwife. When I told my midwife I was having another boy her reaction was so "happy" I couldn't bear to be honest about my feelings about it due to her closed communication. If she had asked me how I felt about it I would have been able to vent to her and she could have been a support to me as I didn't respond well to the news at all and the guilt I had for my gender disappointment was beyond unhealthy.


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Thanks for that. I think a midwife should be someone who you can trust to tell absolutely anything. They must see a fair few Mums experiencing GD on some level so shouldn't be such a taboo topic.