I hear ya, girl. Did you guys use something this last go round? Wasn't it your first month attempting? Honestly, I think either bs'ed preseed is about the same as ew in the long run. Both ph around 8-9 (that is, preseed mixed with bs). Whatever you are most comfortable with is what I think is the way to go. Plus, and I hope this isn't the case, but you could try one this month, and if it doesn't work, try the other the next month? I am a fan of switching things up a bit the next try if you get a bfn. (And I'm sorry you did, but don't worry, most ladies take a few months at least when swaying.)