opk question

Eleena - I was paranoid about missing my window (I did last month) and I sent atomic a long message about which days to DTD and how to execute the OPK and every 4 day method, etc, and she gave me great advice. The entire point of the every 4 day method is to not do OPK, not plan, and not think about it. It seems you are a planner by nature (as I am) and I think for me this month just picking a random start day and just BD every 4 days without thinking about it has been great. I would either do the every 4 day method as intended (without doing OPK) or just BD once during the month when your OPK seems nearly positive (or use a smiley face style to help you confirm). It seems you are over thinking things.

I am def a over thinker yes.lol. I really am hoping for a BFP before November time so that's why I need to DTD properly on time every month.think I will stick to one attempt at pos opk for the first 2 months.

Both O-2 and O-1 are good chances of conception and O-3 and O day aren't terrible. I am really concerned you are undermining your sway by focusing too much on this day or that day. The difference between one day and the other for odds of conception are not that high.

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Originally Posted by eleena2014

I am def a over thinker yes.lol. I really am hoping for a BFP before November time so that's why I need to DTD properly on time every month.think I will stick to one attempt at pos opk for the first 2 months.

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"properly on time" just means at some point in your fertile window. If we had to DTD on precisely one proper day to get pg the whole human race would have died out long ago.