So true Carmella. The emphasis on gender is (unfortunately) so great this time that it may take a while to process. It's funny, my DH bought intelligender as a surprise for me and I freaked out - haven't been able to do it (even though I know it's not very accurate) so that's made me realise I'm so reluctant to know this time. Ah we'll see - should be posting a nub piccie for guesses this time tomorrow! Xx