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Huge hugs Kazmac, ive been there too, I was distraught when I found out ds3 was a boy, it took me a good few weeks to come to terms with it, but from the moment he was born we had such a strong bond, so much more so than with my other 2 boys at birth. He's my little gd baby and I love him so much more than I ever thought possible. You will too, im certain of it, ive said this a million times but theres something so special about a gd baby, they were sent to us for a reason.
Never give up on your girl though, she may very well be in your future ;-) x
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My ig opposite gd baby is extra special too, melted my heart from the second he was born xx
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If this is truely your last go around you have two things to mourn. The actual GD and the loss of a DD that will never be. You rant, scream, beat up pillows and get it all out any way you need to! Dont let anyone tell you that you are wrong for feeling this way and I know lots of other ladies on this page have been in the same boat and will tell you the same! It will take time and when you see your little man things will get better! *hugs*
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We were sure ds3 was our last. I grieved for my lost dd dream, i cried and felt guilty for that but i knew i had to deal with it long before his birth. Then i shopped. I bought beautiful bedding, did his room, bought the cutest outfits i could find, new pram, gorgeous blankets .... Just like I would have had it been the girl I'd hoped. It sounds trivial but it helped to celebrate my new baby because it wasn't his fault I'd hoped he was a girl. It helped me bond with him. The GD still stung but it was secondary to my new little baby. It took us a few years to actually ttc again but my dh did it for me, not for the dream as we never imagined it would happen for us. Hugs xx
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How are you about things? Hoping you are feeling bit better xx
