I THINK I see a nub in that photo, if I do it appears to be sticking up so I guess boy.
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I THINK I see a nub in that photo, if I do it appears to be sticking up so I guess boy.
Is it bad to be a little sad to not get what you hoped for? Although im so blessed to be having this child
Not at all. That's whats brought most of us to this site. We know we're lucky to have a healthy baby. We're lucky for the children we have. But we're also allowed to want a particular gender, for whatever reason, it doesn't make us bad people, it doesn't mean we don't love our children ... We just also want what our hearts desire. Hugs xx
That makes me feel so much better, I've felt so guilty because when the doctor said it was 70% girl I was crushed. I wasnt as excited as I have been since I found out I was pregnant. And my fiancee's mother was in the room and could tell I was upset. Im scared to have a girl. I was raped at a young age and no matter what I will always worry myself sick. I didn't want to bring up a daughter in this sick world. I would be so happy if I went back on my 15 weeks gender scan they told me a boy. I know I will love my child no matter what. Im so happy that I have the chance to experience motherhood I just need to cope with this gender thing.
Sweetheart, no matter what the gender is, God gave you "her"-"him" with a purpose. God knows what suits you best and what you are made for at this moment of your life.
If it's a girl then she'll be stronger and special because she has a mother like you. You'll teach and prepare her for life better then anyone.
Do not feel guilty, upset or bad because of your hard experience you lived years ago.
God gave her with a reason. Everything happends for a reason in life.
Be happy you have a healthy baby and ALWAYS stay positive.
Let us know what doctor says next.
Hugs❤️
It's not even bad to be a LOT sad. Most of us have experienced that.Quote:
Originally Posted by LittleBabyJones
And given your reasons you've got more right than us anyway!
Congrats on your pregnancy, and you will be a great mum to a girl or boy as you obviously care very much xxxx
Thankyou so much to you wonderful mothers with awesome inspiring feedback. I feel more support here than anywhere. The kind words have given me a little more confidence and im coping with the fact that I probably have a girl more and more. It makes my fiancee upset so I try not to talk about it with him or anyone else for that matter because I know not everyone is as understanding as you all.
I also have this one
I think it's totally natural to have ties to a particular gender. Gender desire has nothing to do with love or being a good or bad parent. I love my 2 sons very much & will love my new baby if he is another boy, but I have always wanted a daughter & never particularly wanted a son. It is what it is. Don't ever feel bad for what you want.
I will trade you LOL totally kidding. I wish we could pick what we were having