My husband asked just the other day if we where guaranteed with our next baby that it would be 100% a boy would I go again and I said no I would prefer just 2 boys. If it was 100% a girl I would def go again.
While having my two boys I also had 2 miscarriages and about 5 people have told me oh you probably can't carry girls. REALLY that makes me upset what if they are right and is there anyway to find that out!? Also the more time that passes the more I don't want to go back to that whole newborn stage. Then someone will have a girl and I go back right back to the start. I keep thinking I'll regret it if I don't try.
I constantly am thinking about what to do, it's nice to know I'm not alone, what county are you from? I'm in Australia QLD.
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I don't actually have this issue with DH- it hink he will be happy to go on for however many i want. lol, he says to me 'its not like i will get a choice, you will just make all these logical arguments and i will give in to make you be quiet' haha. I only want 4 though so i will be fighting myself if umber 4 is another boy. I also had 2 missed miscarriages a few yrs back and my mother and other ppl regularly say they might have been girls and i might not be able to carry them, which makes me see red. They stopped saying it once i got really angry and pointed out how rare it is for someone to not be able to carry a certain gender. HT is also so far out of our reach, we can only sway and pray. I live in Victoria, Australia