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Totally understand these feeling, the rude comments and the pressure to have a girl. Some days it just makes me want to stop at my 2 boys. When people ask if I'll have another I say I'm not sure or no I don't want the oh I hope it's a girl comments!
I won't tell anyone im trying or swaying except for you ladies and I don't think I'll tell anyone I'm pregnant until I know the sex.
Think I'll start in mar/April
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Only my DH, Atomic and you girls know I'm swaying. That's actually a good idea to wait until you know the gender. Last pregnancy I found out I was having a DS but we didn't tell anyone. It gave me time to get used to the idea and nobody said anything to me when they found out we had a boy. Only later the comments started[emoji34]
Hehe... I'm amazed at what I get away with. Not snacking, no meat, weight loss etc and not many people query it.
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So are you ttc now?Quote:
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Yes, I started the diet and exercise in October and have lost 9kg. Im just trying to maintain my weight now. This is our 2nd month TTC.
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I am such a blabber mouth but its not hard to keep it to myself about the diet and ttc/pregnancy with all the comments. I even have a friend who is so horrified by the thought that i want a girl she just doesn't get it. She is pregnant with her 2nd boy which is what she wanted, and just does not get the desire for a girl and is always saying i shouldn't have anymore babies. No idea why. Because it might be a girl? or a boy? or because it will be my 4th, and she only wants 2? Ugh i don't know
Mum4life... I'm the same. I'm usually an open book which is why I thought being on this diet would be difficult. At work we all eat lunch together... Over Xmas with family...
I don't know why people feel the need today comment on the number of children you want [emoji15] as long as you and your partner can handle it that's all that matters.
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I honestly found going from 2-3 super easy, so i may as well throw another into the mix lol, last one though. I don't know what the problem is. Actually in her words 'i'm not allowed to have more babies' i mean wtf is that?? -_-
That's good to hear [emoji3]I'm making the jump from 2 to 3... hopefully it's not too bad for me either.. Fx we catch an egg first anyway
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Could you're friend possibly be jealous at how well you handle and cope with having 3 when she only has the 2. Or maybe she secretly wants a girl and is scared that you'll realize her dream. Not sure... Just ideas..
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Very well could be either.. i think she has issues with the one atm, but there is 7 yr between her first and second. I found going from 1-2 so much harder than going from 2-3, so you should be fine! :)