well ive had a dd name picked for over four years now and would still be using it if we ever did have a dd!
DS1, We liked, Ebony, Jessica or Bethany but never decided because i was so certain he was a boy which obviously he was!
DS2, we still liked Bethany, but then at the same time i found DS2's name i found my girl name and that has remained the same ever since, she would be called Darcie.
As for not having the same initials, all my boys 1st names all begin with the same letter and ds2 &3 also have the same middle initial (but different middle names)
My boys are called, Damien, Dexter, Daniel, and Dominic.
originally they didnt intentionally start out to have the same initials, i just loved the names Damien and Dexter, but when we had ds3, i had promised my dh he would be the last so we thought he'd feel left out with a different initial lol! then i persuaded dh to have ds4, again, hes meant to be the last so we couldnt leave him out either! now he really has to be the last (or at least the last boy lol) as weve run out D names we both like!:think: