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yes this is such a fab site and everyone is incredibly helpful, I hope you have a great sway emma. My DH isn't keen on abstaining :-( so he is doing frequent realise (by himself lol) every morning and then when it comes to DTD he is going to release and disregard first off before we BD I just hope that this works aswell as abstaining
Hi Princess mom I notice you already have a DD do you think you did anything differently to when you conceived DS
abstaining not working very well anyway. Neither tactic is bringing home the bacon. Most important thing is sticking with one attempt!Quote:
Originally Posted by sassy86
Hi, well I DTD yesterday evening DH had already released in the evening before we DTD (I don't think he knew we going to BD last ) I had my second flashing smiley face yesterday, it was our first and only attempt this month, a couple of things are concerning me.....I took Sudafed and so did DH I completely forgot that I should be taking Benadryl and also I have noticed a bit of EWCM today is there anything I can now to quickly to dry it up ?
thank you
You are all good! Sending you a ton of pink dust!!!
Thank you for your help atomic, I just have one more concern (sorry) I DTD on Monday night as my fertility monitor was flashing and then it normally I normally get a pos opk the day after, I was hoping to wait until Tuesday when I had a definite positive but I knew DH would be away, but my concern is I still haven't got a pos opk yet its still just flashing and my sticks aren't showing a dark line, Im worried to do bd again as I only wanted to do the one attempt but im worried that if its too far from ovulation I will be in boy territory, what do you think?
Welcome Sassy!
Most current girl swayers here on Gender Dreaming are doing:
* LE diet for at least 12 weeks before attempt which is 1500-1800 calories, 40-50g protein, and 30-60g fat a day.
* Skipping breakfast.
* No snacking.
* Fiber supplement with meals.
* 60 minutes of cardio daily OR nothing at all.
* 1 attempt in fertile window (by BD every 4 days OR by BD once at +opk)
* Folic acid or folate only.
* Clomid if you can get it.
* Alcohol and caffeine daily.
* Olive leaf extract for DH.
* Licorice root for DH (only if under 35 years old with no blood pressure issues).
Most have stopped doing antihistamines, Rephresh/Replens/Sylk, jump and dump, PH stuff, saw palmetto, and even vitex as they don't seem to sway much and only make conception harder.
Good luck!
There is no "boy territory" so don't worry about that.Quote:
Originally Posted by sassy86
YOu need to be in with an attempt that has a chance of conception. So I would have another one if you haven't gotten your positive yet.
Hi I got my first pos on Wednesday evening so 2 days after my attempt so I left it at the one attpt and didn't bd again but hopefully that will be enough to get me bfp!!
Atomic,
Can you speak more about why to drop SP and vitex? I've just started my sway and have all of these supplements on hand. Can you speak more on this? I also saw somewhere that you no longer recommend Aspirin too? I guess a lot has changed in a year because all of these were recommended on my sway plan. I have to do an EGS because this is absolutely my last baby and I'm almost 38. DH is 48.