Originally Posted by
atomic sagebrush
Um, wow, I really can't disagree more with you. I know you're just kidding and don't mean anything by it, but trust me - doing the wrong things for swaying actually harm people all the time by disrupting their lives and fertility and making it take months/years to get pregnant. People ended up in the hospital on the "other site" from being on dangerously restrictive, high sodium sway diets too long. If you get pregnant in one month like you did, yahoo. You can look back on it as a joke and laugh. Other people go on and on swaying for years sometimes and we have to focus on the stuff that gets results because doing it all can ruin people's lives for a while and their health indefinitely (as has happened to people who ended up with chronic high blood pressure and damage to their bones and teeth from being on the unhealthy versions of the blue sways diets for years at a time).
If you want a child of a certain gender, do the things that work. Drop the things that don't, especially if they inhibit odds of conception significantly. And if it is something that is unpleasant to your husband in any way, and it doesn't work, drop it like a pair of hot nuts because what happens is they get sick of swaying and refuse to do ANY of it - and even can change their mind about TTC any more. It has happened and not only to a few people, they made their husbands so crazy that they ended up with no baby and even no marriage sometimes. :(