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Thanks heaps everyone and as much as I want a baby like yesterday I think I know deep down at the moment isn't the right time so maybe in 6-12mths we will be in a better place then I will have a talk to him so he can hear (as much as he doesn't what to hear it) that I mean what I say and that it isn't some crazy idea 😊
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If you ease into it it's not that bad. That is how all us boy moms eat!Quote:
Originally Posted by bec2483
Re your DH - luckily time is on your side being only 33, just be patient and revisit the idea at a later time and he may be more receptive to it.
Thanks atomic and I love how you are so incouraging it gives this mum of 4 girls hope
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I know how you feel. We've tried once in America ivf/pgd. Unfortunately didn't work for us.
Hubby has now said, his too old!
My husband has been pretty wishy-washy since we found out #4 was another boy. For a few months though, he was very adamant that we're done. I won't lie, it was upsetting to me but I just tried to enjoy my baby and ignore him.
Lately though, he's been back to a little wish-washy. He always pulls out but we had a few oops moments in December around the time of ovulation. He says he was worried but he really didn't seem to be and he even jokingly asked if I was pregnant. Like someone else said, as long as he doesn't go for the V, the door is open for a 5th.
But anyway, to answer your question, I agree with the others. You should sit down and have a good chat with him. That's what I did with my husband. I just asked him to give me time. I thought that maybe after a few months or even a year, that the GD would go away and I would be totally on board for a vasectomy. I told him that I wasn't ready to make a permanent decision and I think, deep down, he wasn't either. I offered to go back on the pill but he didn't want me to. I haven't been on in it probably 10 years.
We still aren't ready apparently b/c DS4 is 17 months.
With all of the birth control options today, there is no need to make a big decision if both of you aren't completely ready for it.