:agree: totally and like I mentioned before the stats are really meaningless because they're based on the experiences of women that may not BE you. Like infertility patients (because having babies in the 40's wasn't common till recently and the majority of people who did so, had struggled wth fertility) and people with other health problems (chances of which increase with age) If you've had proven fertility in your 40's and you're healthy, the stats don't necessarily represent you.