What do you mean by 'as far in advance as possible'? Do you just mean every 2-4 days after AF is done? Or should he releasing following this pattern during AF?
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I mean he needs to be "cleaning the pipes" regularly starting literally as far in advance as possible. Months. Years. Decades (ok maybe that is stretching it a little). If at all possible he should NOT wait till the month of your planned attempt, he should certainly not wait till after AF in the month you plan to attempt, he should be aiming to do this level of release all along.
Sperm take a minimum of 72 days to form and by having him do this regular release, his body will be making nice amounts of healthy sperm and ejaculating any unhealthy, aging sperm regularly.
It is ok if he has a bad day or week now and then, misses a release, whatever, you're just aiming for an overall trend.
Oh pants. .. so that's not been happening! Not sure how I managed to over look this issue. I was under (wrong ) impression the 2-4 release could start after AF.... is this a big factor?
I don't have the information to be able to know that for sure. Has he not been releasing at all???
Oh crap we've been slacking off in the tww. Dh has been flat out & on average in the tww we've probably only been bding/releasing twice a week.
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It's been very variable, his busy job means bd can be anywhere from x3 a week to every 2 weeks! Usually more like once a week, was due to try to start from tomorrow. .. guess I'll have to postpone and hope the 2-4 day pattern will be ok for a month. Would it better to go for every 2 days? Thanks
So BDing on positive opk night(two attempts) after 6 days of cut-off then on O day night(two shots) again the next morning after getting negative Opk. I hope we didn't messed up with timing.
- All attempts with pre-seed
- 6 day cut-off because of late ovulation around on CD22
Next time (if there is a next time) I'd not let him go 6 days without a release.
If it was really the day after O day the egg was either dead or fertilized by then and it didn't count. But still good attempts!