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Thank you so much for your thoughts.
I can't believe how sad I feel I can't even sleep and just keep crying. As much as I will love this baby boyit just means never having a girl and its a hard thing to accept. I don't why the technician said looked like a girl? Because from what I've seen it does look boy. But maybe Im finding the spine angle a little difficult.
Is it obvious boy or do I still have a chance at having a girl? What do you guys think?
I saw this when I was watching my 12 week ultrusound video and took a still shot. What do you think? Attachment 30049
Girl!!
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Girly girl :)
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I'm leaning towards girl. I really wish you all the very best, we all deserve our gender desires, at the end of the day luv trust in the Lord xx
Good Luck .
P.s You need sleep for your health and your unborn child xx
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I actually lean more girl. I'm not convinced the thing in the first pic is an angled nub, IMO it is not in the right place for a nub, it looks more like cord insert.
Your second pic i would have guessed tentatively boy and your still looks very girly. Also if the tech said girl she will have seen nub from all angles and have a better picture than us.
That being said, I would prepare yourself to hear boy. I have four boys and two of them were obvious from nub shot. While the nubsessing was very upsetting, it did help to prepare for the outcome of having a boy. Gender desire/disappointment is an awful thing but you can get over it.
The best thing you can do is get some sleep like the previous poster said. Stressing over a nub just isn't worth it at the end of the day. And I'm talking from someone who has been there. Congrats on your baby x
Thank you all so much for your kindness and taking the time to help me. X
Faith in pink thank you for your kind words. I'm trying so hard to just let go and except the Lords plan for me. I feel a bit all over the place at the moment I don't know whether to just let myself feel the sadness so I can move on. Now I have got my hopes up agin with this picture not sure if this is a good thing. Whatever happens it will be as it should be. Xxx
Thank you so much baby girl quest hearing from people who have been through the same thing helps so much. I Have been trying to prepare myself to hear boy from when I became pregnant and I thought I would be ok but it's like I just lose control of my feelings and sense of reason. I also feel guilt for not being grateful. Your right I think this nub obsessing will help to prepare for the disappointment.
Thank you for taking the time xxx
At 12 w, the only really obvious boy nub is one that's already pointed up very early -- and yours hasn't!Quote:
Originally Posted by 3 boys would love a girl2
I feel so much empathy for you -- I had a near breakdown after spending HOURS researching nubs after my nuchal scan, all because I so desperately wanted a boy and was (pretty sure) I had a girl.
I wish techs wouldn't guess so early. At my anatomy scan, the tech even said when I mentioned how I was pretty positive it was a girl, "Oh, by nub theory? I usually tell people around then!" SHE hadn't even told me, because mine was still inconclusive enough around 13w for her to hold off... and it ended up being a girl.
I recommend trying to see a counselor or professional if you can, to not only work through things before the anatomy scan, but to help you through this process in general. <3
Thank you throwaway Panther for your empathy, understanding and sharing your story with me x
I saw my obstetrician on Monday and I told him how anxious I was feeling. He told me it was a bit early. I asked him to have a look and see if he could see anything when he did the ultrasound. We both saw 3 clear white lines multiple times from an underneath potty shot angle. He told me he was 'pretty sure' it was a girl. I have chosen to do the harmony nipt blood test to find out for sure because I think not knowing for sure is causing me more stress. So I should know the result in a week and a half which still seems so far away.
I don't want to get my hopes up I still feel like it's 50/50. So of course I have been looking up early 3 line potty shots and reading mixed experiences.
I don't have a picture unfortunately I forgot to ask for one because I was so overwhelmed. But I remember seeing 3 clear short white lines.
Will update in a week and a half x