Originally Posted by
atomic sagebrush
Geez. With friends like that who needs enemies, right?
Some people online like to talk out their butts to make other people feel bad. It makes them feel important knowing that they've very likely upset another person. Some people do have fertility challenges, and age does make it more likely that you'll have struggles with fertility but someone online has no way of knowing that.
I can't know about your egg quality without your numbers in front of me but trust me, I've had people who had absolutely abysmal numbers (indicating very poor egg quality) who did end up getting pregnant. It may take a little longer, but it can still happen. Even with age-related egg quality issues, you will still make a good egg, just less often than younger women do. Let's say it happens only 1-2 times a year - you can still get pregnant, it just takes a little longer. I know it's so hard to keep up trying month after month with the BFN but it is the only way to catch the good eggs you do make, even if they're few and far between (and again, we don't know this. It very well may be that at first it was the fibroid, now it's been the MTHFR, and we will remove each obstacle as it comes along and you'll still get pregnant once we get them out of our way.
Aspirin only under advice of your doc. ARe you taking folate instead of folic acid?? If not, please do so.
Are you on a lower carb, higher protein diet? If not, do that. Avoid skim dairy. Some people benefit from going totally wheat free.
Has your hubby gotten a sperm analysis done? (sorry I'm sure I should know that already)