Thank you all so much for your replies. I've decided to go with a personalised plan to boost my confidence with it all & to stop stressing & obsessing with it all.
I've already dropped red meat & ive stopped skipping breakfast for now. I've dropped the cal/mag/D3 & the cranberry. I'm no longer taking vitamin C & been giving it to my boys instead. I'll give the leftover cranberry to DH in his juice until it's all gone.