Originally Posted by
atomic sagebrush
Well, I think I explained this to you already via PM, so please forgive my mindnumbing repetitiveness but all babies look like girls at first. The Y chromosome is dormant. It's sleeping until 10 weeks. Then, it wakes up and starts making testosterone. This testosterone makes "ovaries" turn into testicles and a "clitoris" turn into a penis. A baby that looks 100% like a girl can end up to be a boy. It's fetal development 101 and any tech that guesses on ultrasound shots too soon should probably be fired for it IMVVVVHO.
Potty shots are tricky because unlike nubs, where you are seeing the entire side view beginning to end, potty shots are often showing only the teensiest little bits of stuff. It's totally possible for the tech to be zoomed in too low and not capture the penis, it's totally possible for the penis to just be still on the smaller side and eclipsed by swollen "labia" which are actually developing testicles.
You know why I'm taking time out of my day to explain this to you is not because I"m a big stupid meanie who wants to rain on your parade. It is because I do not want you to be heartbroken if the tech is wrong. It is because I have seen LOTS of people told gender too soon, told 1000% guarantee and the tech is an expert and highly recommended and then the other sites say blah blah blah and people end up in a very very very bad place that could have been totally prevented with a more conservative approach to gender guessing.
It is entirely possible you're having a girl. Yay. But it is not my job or ELP's job to PROVE it to you. It is not our job to go digging through old ultrasounds on your behalf. Both of us have looked at a whole lot of ultrasounds over the years and we are the only ones telling you "gee whiz, looks encouraging but proceed with caution here". That is because we are honest and have your best interest at heart because we've seen it go the other way often enough and know how devastating it is.
We are not the bad guys for not blowing smoke up your ass and telling you what you want to hear.
I wish you the best, hope you're having a girl, but you'll get no more of my time on this. Good luck.