Hi ladies thanks for the replies, I'm ovulating now and due to ovulate around the 24th of December according to fertility friend, I have a average 27 day cycle length, it just that its really hard to ignore all these extra things that are on the internet when you're trying to find the answer to something so personal. Its hard to ignore when you see the answer girl on their calculators and calendars. This is the chinese gender calendar I used because you can put your birth date in it and specific days of conception:
http://www.chinesefortunecalendar.com/PredictSex.htm
Here are the other links too:
http://www.moonsigncalendar.net/moon...011&zeitzone=0
http://www.astro.com/cgi/genchart.cgi?&lang=e&gm=a2
I guess I just need to rein myself in a bit and believe in myself and what I'm doing physically is more important than any thing calculated on a screen right?