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Hope, Thanks what is your plan for dtd are you having a cut off?.
Lemon, When I concieved our d/s we did fr bd so it was pretty much everyday from af to af which never came! obviously. So i have a very strong feeling d/h has high sperm count id rather him release himself every day for 12 days and then twice a day on day of attempt with doing the deed with second to weaken the sperm count and by doing it so close to o i am hoping to have a chance.
Hey pink!
lol, i have no plan!
Really I wanted a one time attempt with cut off...a year later, I am getting too old for this! And frustrated and now obsessed with the perfect sway that means nothing!
I thought I od on monday but now I think I reacted to a fake lh surge early in my cycle. I think I will o tomorrow.
We dtd on cd 8, 11, 12 did not count as too shallow, 13...I am cd 14 and due to o tomorrow.
DH had a good sperm count when we checked...... years ago...so who knows!
He has been releasing for me and still dtd everyday....what do you think...stop at a 2.5 day cut off or keep going??
I guess I was wondering why a few people were thinking of a one time deal...not as likely to get pregnant I thought.
That is a lot of bding last time you conceived ds....wow!
Have you used douching or any lubricants????
Never ever used a douche as I wouldnt know where to start and only ever have used sylk as a lube and that was in march this year and i had a chemical preg not saying the sylk had anything to do with it but girls can be concieved without it I will be just using Rephresh. I am not going to stress about anything with my sway. This sway I have now is over a years worth of changing and planing and its the most basic sway I have planed for myself yet. I will stick to it because i dont find it stressful. The one time dtd is because my cycle can be wacky and i want to try and weaken d/h sperm as much as i can before i get my first pos opk then dtd once on that then no more. I know timing is least imp but I cant say for sure when d/s was concieved so will try this first and see how we go thats all I can do! And also d/s was a very fr dtd so will just try this way for next baby.
Hmmm as for your question Are your cycles spot on every month? If it was me and i knew I was def going to o in 2.5 days then I would just leave it at that , If your diet is good and ions and everything else then 2.5 day is great ( i think )
rainbowflower, how you said I should aim to use the rephresh a day before attempt should i use the full app?
Looks good! I will be doing pretty similar soon, trying to work out the last details. Good luck!!
Yes. I am having a cutoff. Got my smiley today. Doing one time attempt later! O should be in 2 days thats what has happened every cycle I've tracked. Positive smiley 0, 2 days later.Quote:
Originally Posted by pinkin2011
that is a good cut off. I am doing the same thing, have you had your d/h abstain or release?
I've had dh release every day. Yesterday when I got smiley I had him release in am, I did rephresh and we dtd later that night. I felt my ph was a little high, so I figured the extra release and shot of rephresh would counteract the 12 hrs later dtd. If that makes sense.
I am thinking of having my d/h release twice then dtd and then the next day have d/h release twice again and dtd again and have my cut off with my near positive opk. I will alos get him to release once a day for 10 days before our first attempt. i am thinking getting in two attempts with low sperm count may help.. will see. your attempt sounds great I would stop there for this month if it was me and see how you go. Hope you get you bfp!!!!!
I think that sounds great. Let me know how it goes!Quote:
Originally Posted by pinkin2011