We know swaying works not because of the experiences of one person or even two or three, but the overall results of the site and because of studies that show certain things do alter the gender ratio from what it "should be".
I have an essay about the overall stats here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum...-thoughts.html
And an essay about how we know swaying works here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum...-part-1-a.html
I promise it's not true that if you want one, you get the other. I had nothing but boys for 21 years and I wanted a daughter like I wanted air to breathe, LOL...and I got her! :)

