Pregnancy annoucement

Well with my first 2 I didnt know I was pregnant until the first trimester was almost over so pretty much around 12 weeks with them, DS3 around 8-9 weeks, I found out at 6 weeks and went on holiday, so told people shortly after getting home, I was quite bloated right from the start, my whole body seemed to swell up so it was difficult to hide. With DS4, gender was a big issue and I didn't want to have the "are you hoping for a girl" conversation with everyone I spoke to so I waited until after the gender scan at 17 weeks.