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Oh Hun I am so sorry that you are feeling this way. :( I would also suggest not finding out. It's the only way to avoid true GD in my opinion. You could very well be carrying a boy!! :)
Just enjoy your pregnancy reguardless of gender....you worked VERY hard to conceive that baby and are lucky to be pregnant. And you DESERVE that baby. :)
TTC5, I am right there with you. I am pretty sure my sway failed, and I am kicking myself daily for the one part of my sway that I feel like I "messed up" (I think I ovulated early, so my timing was off--totally out of my control, but I can't help but blame myself). The fact that all those stupid psychics keep telling me "girl" isn't helping either! I had a long cry today, thinking about how awful it is that I won't get another baby boy to cuddle. We are DONE after this baby, and so, like Mocha said, even though the thought of trying again helped my GD last time, I don't have that comfort this time... it feels awful.
I hope you do have a baby boy in there, TTC5... that baby is a little miracle, either way; it went through so much to get to you. Just a few months ago, you were afraid you couldn't have any more babies! I know that doesn't take away from the sting of GD, but I think that baby was meant to be. :)
Thanks for all the great words of support guys. I am feeling better now and have not been feeling "worried" :) What will be will be!!
Isn't it nice to know you're not alone in feeling that way?? I thought I was the worst mother in the world 7 years ago when the tech said "Girl". NO ONE could ever understand the feeling until they go through it! You are so not alone :)
Hoping you hear BOY! This seems to be the time of year for them, FX for you!!!
TTC5, remember just a little over a month ago or so when we were all working to figure out how to get your IVF paid for since the docs supposedly had screwed up your fertility? THIS IS A BLESSING, and you should totally remind yourself of that anytime you start worrying about never having a boy. I would give anything to have a healthy little girl nestled safely in my belly right now. I know it's easier said than done to not worry about it, but life will go on either way. It will. You just have to take a deep breath and realize that you very well may have a baby boy in there now, and there is no reason to get worried about it! Don't let those pg hormones get the best of you. :kiss:
hey hun hope you feel better I'm in the same boat wondering if I will ever be blessed with a boy, the way I see to cope with it and not stress this time is to do as little as possible related to finding or guessing the gender and just try to relax and take everything as it comes. I'm also not going to find out the sex and think of any specific names until the baby is born. I think it will help me avoid Gender disappointment not knowing until baby is born because we always fall in love with our baby when its born no matter what. I hope all our dreams come true xx
Thanks guys, I am feeling so much better :)