Nini's GIRL sway - its another sweet BOY!

Thanks for all your wishes, everytime I get the panic it might be a boy, I come here and remind myself that there is no reason to. I love my boys and the idea of completing my family is so reassuring. Cant wait to see a heart beat, will go for a scan the week after next I hope.

Auroara, I am due 17 October! I will join you on the mum to be boards soon, just waiting to see a heartbeat, please God x

Wilma, I dont know if high hcg means GIrl, in fact I think its impossible to tell from a normal pregnancy test. The tests I got the early BFP from are highly sensitive, they detect from 10 whereas the ones I got from the shops detect from 25 onwards, so that might make a difference (and might be the reason I got BFN after BFP). Also I noticed that I dont get early BFPs from FMU!!! Its way too diluted. The same happened with ds2 and dd, I got hte first BFP in the afternoon. I got early BFPs with all my kids really (9dpo), so I dont think its a gender thing. In fact, I have promised myself not to obsess about gender until nub time (around Easter).

Starflower, praying you are the next one posting your sway here, yipppieh xxxxx

Congratulations again :D

My DS3 was due on 17th October 2009 - he was born the day before!

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Congrats!!

BFP @7dpo must mean high hcg = girl right?

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There is nothing to this - no way to tell on the basis of when you get a BFP what gender baby you are carrying.


Good luck and congrats nini!!

Its a boy. Looking all good and healthy and I am thrilled to be expecting another sweet son. I am also very sad that my dream, my life dream of having 2 daughters has now forever ended. I never planned much in my life, apart from being a mother and my family always had 2 girls in my dreams. It will take me some time to get over this. I love this little boy already, but I wish he had brought along a twin sister.

I might have another child, but not for the next years. I need to work my way through my emotions first. Ask myself why I wanted daughters so badly, more than one. Isnt it my own childhood that I need to make up for? Should my daughters really be responsible to be born to make up for their mothers missed childhood? I have one healthy daughter and am so grateful for her, just like for my healthy sons. I am blessed. But right now need some time. I will be back soon, just need a break. I dont think I will sway again, I have to get my spirit into the mode where swaying does not matter anymore, where I will trust God to give me what is right.

Congrats on your healthy son and also, some hugs for you too ;) xxxxxxx

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Its a boy. Looking all good and healthy and I am thrilled to be expecting another sweet son. I am also very sad that my dream, my life dream of having 2 daughters has now forever ended. I never planned much in my life, apart from being a mother and my family always had 2 girls in my dreams. It will take me some time to get over this. I love this little boy already, but I wish he had brought along a twin sister.

I might have another child, but not for the next years. I need to work my way through my emotions first. Ask myself why I wanted daughters so badly, more than one. Isnt it my own childhood that I need to make up for? Should my daughters really be responsible to be born to make up for their mothers missed childhood? I have one healthy daughter and am so grateful for her, just like for my healthy sons. I am blessed. But right now need some time. I will be back soon, just need a break. I dont think I will sway again, I have to get my spirit into the mode where swaying does not matter anymore, where I will trust God to give me what is right.

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Nini, I remember when we were pregnant in 2010 and having our first daughters' together. I really loved seeing your posts because you and I had a very similar dream (to have 2 daughters - only mine was 3). I had a terrible childhood and for as long as I could remember I wanted girls to make up for all those lost years. The idea that I could raise a girl in a safe and happy environment made me feel so good inside, I guess.

Although I'm grateful now, for a long time I was sad that I was done having kids. My dd will the be the only girl and she'll never get a sister either.
But then I think about some of the positives; having my daughter to myself (sounds a bit selfish when I put it that way ;D), and since we'll be the only two females, I'm trying my best to make the bond between the two of us strong.
I love that you are so happy to be having your third sweet boy :HH:. Perhaps you may have another in the future, and maybe she'll be a baby girl :) But for now, enjoy your break and I hope you have a happy, healthy pregnancy. Your baby boy will be an amazing addition to your family.

Congratulations and hugs x

Thank you for updating. Congrats on your son. I hope you feel better soon.

Congrats. You sound like such a sweet mother. Take care.

Nini, congrats on a healthy baby boy and (((hugs))) for you.