I feel the same way Somerlouise :( Just yesterday, I found my DDs old baby clothes and it made me tear up a little that she would be my last kid to raise.Quote:
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I feel the same way Somerlouise :( Just yesterday, I found my DDs old baby clothes and it made me tear up a little that she would be my last kid to raise.Quote:
Originally Posted by somerlouise
My loves and somerlouise..that's how I feel....I have 3 and they are amazing but I started to the give away baby gear and had to stop. It may just be I'm not emotionally ready to let go...? I kind of feel done in so many ways...but it breaks my heart all at once!
Ours is more financial we want to travel and pay for college so it is one more for us and we are done.
It is financial for us, too. If money wasn't an object, we would go high tech and try for 2 girls. Because money is major for us, we may not even be able to have one more. DH always wanted 2 boys and 2 girls (he comes from a huge family and was raised by his grandmother who had 12 kids), but because money is such a major issue for us, it may never happen and we have both had to learn to be okay with that. :/ Sorry. That's probably not the answer you were looking for!
Financially we should stop at 3 kids, which is why our limit is 4. It really just depends on where we are after we have our 3rd.. I'm only pregnant with number 2 right now, so we have a while to figure it out!