So, w/ Hic, is it still a good idea that Dh abstain or FR?? since there's just a tiny bit coming out that way? maybe even try at 0+12 with that?
first of all, I would NEVER have anyone try at O+12 if I had my way.
Secondly, doing any other sway tactic will reduce your chances of conception too far. HIC is a good option for people who don't want to do anything else to sway (except diet)