UK SMOG Wannabes APRIL

charlie, i'd love to see your 4d scans! i always think it's neat when siblings look like each other....DS1 and 2 have a somewhat resemblance, and i know this is gonna sound strange, but I think if we did have a girl, and she looked similiar to ds1, she'd be beautiful, because ds1 is very much a pretty boy look, and ds2 looks much more like a little man.

i find out on friday what im having so im either gonna have a trio of little boys or 2 boys and 1 girl. I'm excited but dreading the scan at once.

My thoughts about swaying are that I think it can work, I don't think its a magic bullet or even close to a guarnatee of gender. I also believe you are meant to have who you are meant to have, so no amount of crazy swaying will change the future if a person is *meant* to have boy/girls or boys and girls, etc. But I am so glad I found out about swaying mostly because I met everyone on here and everyone is so supporitve and lovely, it's really nice having a cozy group like this :)

FX for you hun x will post some pics asap of the 4dscan x i just think if swaying worked we would have a least a more 50/50 mix of sex on here.....just my opinion am sure if it worked for me i would think otherwise! I totally agree though that you get who you are meant to have I think just have taken it so personally that I didnt get my girl, what did i do wrong, am i a bad person etc etc x

FX we finally hear some pink again on here x

I've missed so much and have been catching up.

Deaks, LMW and Chocolate congratulations on your boys.

I've decided to stop swaying because it clearly doesn't work. I'm just going to carry on TTC and have to keep my fingers crossed. To be honest I quite fancy another boy as it is now. I had a nice Easter doing boy things like going on steam trains.

I'm just ment to be a boy mum I think and i'm cool with that. Just need to TTC now. On the sunny side the longer it takes then I will have a Spring/Summer baby which would be a lovely change from an Autumn/Winter baby.

Can't believe how much money I wasted on swaying sups and crap over the past 6 months or so. Oh well you live and learn.

Still taking the magnesium as they actually make me feel more balanced.

Hello to everyone and hope your enjoying having yous ds's back at school I know I am lol!

Sorry you saw boy evidence Deaks but I'm happy to hear you're not feeling too down about it x

I obviously think swaying can work because I'm certain that if I hadn't done it then I'd be pregnant with boy #4. There's a huge element of luck involved too and there's nothing we can do about that! I do think the information Atomic has researched for this site, which is very different to the 'traditional' sway stuff, is amazing and I'd go down 'her' route again if we had another baby (which we won't!!).

auroara78 ~ good luck on friday! i'll be here stalking the thread for an update :) what does your gut instinct tell you? I can't believe you're 18 weeks already. Are you feeling kicks yet?

Zanacal ~ I too am certain i would have had another son if it wouldn't have been for swaying, but it's like you say - it all comes down to luck. I still haven't quite understood the concept of the LE diet so if we have another baby in the future and if i decide to sway again i'll be doing the IG diet again. I think Atomic once said 'you shouldn't mess with success' :)

Lavenderlime ~ loving your blog :) your boys are so beautiful! how's the business going? are you enjoying it? :)

I still believe in swaying.. i'm probably the only one on here that does.. ? but at the end of the day it's a very long shot and there are never guarantees as we've seen alot on here lately :( Unfortunately with odds you have to have a very, very large group of women to get reliable results... and our lovely little group is not enough to prove or disapprove the theory of swaying.

My gut tells me girl, but i can't trust that because of my desire, so I am a bit wary to believe it, but I really do think it's a girl, so if it's a boy, you can tell me my gut feeling was wrong.

Hee hee! I wasn't swaying when I conceived Dave (low fertility and swaying = no baby) but tbh I don't belive in it any more - well I do but only that it tweeks your odds by a small %. Maybe 25% not 95% but any tweek in your favour has to be good? I have seen to many EGS girls on IG go for it hard core then get a opersite to belive it with gusto.

I also don't belive in fate. Life is what you make it so I don't belive we are destined to mother just one sex of babies, its just the cards you are dealt on the day. Also it does seem that if you have two or more of one sex then your more likely to have that again. So basically I contradict myself there :rofl: I just don't like the idea my life is set out for me no matter what I do. But then I am the kind of person that belives in going for what you want and getting it, making it happen. Unfortunatly we can't make every dream to come true. Wishing for a DD is no more going to get me that dream than wishing for DH's hair to grow back and he looks like Christain Slater again...... shame on both counts lol!

Maybe- glad the little op for dave went well, hope the feeding starts to improve soon. Great to have so many baby admirers at school, enjoy every minute!

Deaks- so sorry you didn't hear girl, you still have a chance though....I saw enough at my 12 week scan to have serious doubts about this one being a girl which made the 20 week scan so much better as I'd got used to the idea by then and of course now I feel totally fine (mostly!). ((hugs)) though as it is always sad when you have hope and it is dashed. Glad you are feeling ok at the mo though and your friend was supportive, that can really help.

Petal- nice to hear from you :HH:

Charlie- so lovely to have a surprise baby shower, glad you got spoilt, you deserve it hon.

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Originally Posted by maybebabythree

Unfortunatly we can't make every dream to come true. Wishing for a DD is no more going to get me that dream than wishing for DH's hair to grow back and he looks like Christain Slater again...... shame on both counts lol!

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you know, i would love to meet you in real life as i just love your snarky sense of humor! your posts always make me giggle!

great to hear from you indigo! how are you enjoying your pregnancy? is he kicking much? :)