What a gorgeous family hoping4agirl2014! Hope you get your little girl this time. :)
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What a gorgeous family hoping4agirl2014! Hope you get your little girl this time. :)
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Originally Posted by aidansmum
If I had two girls I wouldn't have tried for a boy because I love my first DD so much and just wanted another of her. I USED to say that as long as I had a girl first I wouldn't care what the second one is, but now that I'm having a boy I'm so sad I can't give my dd a sis. I also am really jealous of people who get what they want , and people who have all girl families. I'm hoping that this little DS of mine will completely change my mind and I can't wait to say "I'm SO glad I didn't get what I want.". But we'll see.
I'm sure you will see that actually its nicer that siblings have their own looks, personality and qualities and aren't just replicas of their older brothers/sisters.
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Originally Posted by ilovebagels
Even my identical twins are not replicas of each other. They have opposite personalities and look different to me. I wondered what it would be like having two of the same but now that they are here I have not felt that way once, it is so amazing xo love being a twin Mum
Always wanted a "big brother" for any of the other kids that I had, so was over the moon when I found out our 1st was a boy!! The 2nd time around, was hoping girl, just to be able to experience one of each (& b/c I am a girly girl who loves all the dresses, pink, etc...) When we had our ultrasound I was already so in love, it didn't matter what gender the tech told me! Another BOY!
I heard this somewhere & think it is so true: 'every little boy needs a brother'
So, although I am still hoping for that little girl, I would be sad if I didn't have my boys! I have always wanted a mix of boys and girls, so onto the swaying for that long awaited & wanted little girl :pickuphappy:
We wanted two children and I would have loved two boys. If I would have had two boys.. I would never have found this website. I also would have never found out how awesome little girls are. She is everything I thought I wouldn't like about a girl. She is dainty, sweet, soft-spoken, loves jewelry, and she NEEDS her toe nails painted pink. Turns out I love those things about her. She is exactly what I needed. I'm happy that I didn't get my dream family... I would have never realized how much I was missing.
Nope. I really wanted a boy first! Then I didn't mind what I had. I just didn't want two girls as that is me and my sister and we do not get along at all! So if I'd had a boy first I wouldn't have cared what the second one would have been.
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I don't have children yet but I've always wanted them and have spent a lot of time thinking about what I'd like. As a child I was obsessed with twins (not knowing I was a twin myself), and wanted 6 sets, ha! Equal amounts of boys and girls. As I got older I realized that wasn't very likely nor would I really want 12 kids. Then my friends started having children and all of them have all boys. That really drove home my desire for a girl.
I grew up with just a brother who is much younger and we were never close. I did often wish I had a sister. I also have never got along with my mother - she doesn't get along with most people so I know it's her, not me that's to blame, but I still really want a chance to experience a positive mother-daughter relationship. I always wanted a girl as my first and eldest child and never thought I wouldn't get what I wanted. If I have only girls, I don't think I will sway for a boy. But I know that might change. I don't think I'll ever not want a daughter, and I'd prefer two. If my first 2 are girls, I think I probably will be fine with either for my next two. But we'll see how I feel when the time comes! I do think I will be a better girl mom, but I think I'll do fine with either or both.
I do believe strongly that things happen for a reason and I know I've wanted things that weren't necessarily what I needed, so I'm trying to be more accepting of whatever fate/God decides. HT is very tempting as I can easily afford it, but I don't feel completely comfortable going that route. And beyond that, I really, really just want to get pg and I doubt I can do HT as quickly.