So DH was supposed to abstain 7-10 days, due for +OPK on Saturday or Sunday and he released this morning!! Ugh! MEN!
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So DH was supposed to abstain 7-10 days, due for +OPK on Saturday or Sunday and he released this morning!! Ugh! MEN!
hi ladies ,
how are we all doing ? hoping to see loads of BFP's in the next few days !!
i am 9 dpo today , have been sick to my stomac since 7dpo ! but it went up a "notch" this morning !! i woke up put kettle on and opened fridge to get some milk , the smell hit me like a truck !! i was heaving my heart up run to toilet and started vomiting and dry heaving ...it was so bad , that my 5 year old went to school telling her teacher mummy was so sick this morning she needs to see the dr !! ( bless)
i have become a mega b***h , i wake up every night about 3am bursting for a pee !
i am very crampy sometimes feels like af cramps then othertimes feels like ov pains in my right side . i did htp yesterday 8 dpo bfn ( maybe too early )
i have been freezing cold and very very tired last couple of days .
on more than one occasion i have been so wet down there that i've rushed to bathroom to check it's not af early !lol
everything seems DIRTY , i'm forever cleaning and disinfectiing because nothing seems clean !!
my skin and boobs are fine at the mo , wich is weird because with my girls they were the first things to change ! boobs would get sore about 4-5dpo and my face would break out big time !! my skin is fine and my boobs don't hurt but i seem to be more aware of them iykwim
I don't know when to test again , too scared of getting a bfn again
A&j your symptoms are promising! I'm pretty sure if I threw up out of nowhere I would be positive I was preg! I very rarely read about women getting bfp at 8 dpo, you could still be implanting the bean :)
Today I'm 5 dpo my symptoms are similar to progesterone I think. My tiredness has gone away mostly. Last night after the fam went to bed I stayed up and ate some garlic chips and cottage cheese, together lol. So that was kind of weird. I really hope this is our month!!
Ok well I will post my update since the day is almost over. This afternoon I started getting dull pressure like in my uterus, almost feels like it's tugging or stretching or I guess it could be explained as a really dull cramp. Lower back also hurts today but I've had this on bfn cycles too.
I wonder if my progesterone supplements could be causing the pressure feeling I'm having. I stood up fast today and the cramp got stronger.
A little piece of me wants to believe it could be implantation but seems too early for that.
10 dpo bfn!
Had pains in lower back lastnight
Weird dreams and still waking up in middle of night bursting for a wee!
12 dpo....waiting for af. My temps have been dropping for the past few days, so I pretty much know its over for this month. So on to cycle 8 of ttc I go.
It wasn't much of a dip to be honest, but I've never had one before and now my temp is charting higher post-O than it ever has - I don't know how to link you to my chart but here's a screen shot xx
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I'm 6 dpo today, the only other thing I've noticed is that if I lean on my stomach or if something presses on my lower stomach I feel nauseous. I know that wouldn't sound too much out of the ordinary but I don't think that usually happens and it seemed weird to me. Probably nothing though. Tiredness has gone away again I think, but then again when is a mom not tired? Going to head out for a morning run, we'll see how this goes. And menlc611 - I agree with mis2ninos to now go for FR. I was CD61 so had no idea when I would o and had bd every other day the week before on accident trying for fr but he was too tired some days. Hopefully it didn't ruin anything for us, we're TTC pink.
Coyleof7 that chart looks great!
Hi, how is everyone?
I'm cautiously excited for a raise in temp I had today up .4 degree to 98.51 which is the highest temp for me EVER sincera i starter charting almost a year ago!! So maybe I did implant yesterday? If thats the case then I should be able to test soon....
Mis2ninos is this your first cycle on Progesterone? Unfortunately the temps are not reliable at all when you are taking progesterone and also AF can be late as long as you are on it. You can have a look at my last chart it was the first month on progesterone and I got all excited because it was the most perfect chart I have ever seen. Also progesterone doesn't give you any symptoms, if you have any it's hopefully from a beginning pregnancy :).
I have strong cramps since yesterday, hoping it's a good sign. No other symptoms so far.
What are your cramps like pumpkin? Like af or dull like mine?
Dull cramps...I know it's still early but I am getting excited. With every pregnancy I had this cramps and never had any in a cycle that ended in a BFN.
Hi ladies! Just chiming in.did our first attempt Oct 8th on O day so 4 dpo today.I hate that I pick apart my sway.I did a good job but I did 4get to give dh & I mucinex & I had only got a couple good work outs in but I just stress about it and I shouldn't.does anyone else feel this way? How do u cope?
I think it's normal to feel stressed! Just keep in mind ANY swaying is better than no sway! So what if you forgot something? You still swayed! DH and I cut back our sway a LOT this month.. We just want to get pg and at this point don't care about the gender! But we take comfort in knowing we're still swaying, even if it's minimal. Good luck! And just try to relax! :)
Well, I went and did it, didn't I? Said I wasn't going to bother testing at all until I was late or until AF started...
Had a bath this morning and had a small amount of white liquid come from my left breast, which I've never had happen before apart from 2009 when I have my first unconfirmed m/c. I told myself it was hormones - NOTHING more. But caved and tested - POAS (regular, non-frer) and nothing came up, but got called away and left the test. I remembered an hour later and went to bin it - there's a shadow of a line there. I know the test is invalid after 10 minutes so really not taking it for granted (not that I was anyway - no symptoms whatsoever) and am only on 10DPO, so WHYYYY did I have to fold and do the test?
Why did I do that to myself? :hair: Ok! That's it - no test until Thursday earliest. We'll go from there...
Awww Bunny it's hard to resist!!! And I know it's hard getting bfn.. Try your best to stick it out! You can do it!!! Fx for a BFP!!!
Bunny, its so hard to not think about it ! I've had to have some severe chats with myself over trying to work out when I'd be going on maternity leave if it has worked out this time !
I'm convinced I'm not pg but am 13 dpo which is 3 more than last month. I think I'm imagining vague nausea today !
and I don't want to say any of this to dh or anyone because chances are I'll get af tomorrow and that will be that for this month.
The frustrating thing about it is I wouldn't have thought about it if I hadn't taken the bath in the first place. Have felt on and off mild nausea over the last couple of days but I have a bit of a head cold so have a load of stuff draining down the back of my throat that makes me feel ill normally when it happens. Oh the joys of ttc...
It is frustrating isnt it, i did a test yesterday as only 7DPO hoping for a faint line but no nothing....no syptoms either. I dont usually take this long to get pregnant, I stop the shallow release and 3-4 day timing cut offs too this month. Really hoping for that BFP and have gone off the diet in 2WW as it was driving me mental.
Aww sorry :( :bighug: You are still totally in this! I know for me I just HAVE to know, I wish I could be strong like you and just resist the urge to test. :gloomy:
I actually took 3 tests today! Crazy, I know. I tested yesterday too, at 7 dpo. Yesterday with FRER, BFN. This morning with FMU on FRER, BFN. Today I bought some cheapies early response Equate brands, I peed on it and after about 1 minute looked like it was negative so I threw it out. I HAD to go check the stupid thing an hour later and there it was - a second blue line, pretty dark actually. Even though my smart brain was telling me, it must be an evap, my heart wanted to believe it so I went ahead and held my pee for 4 hours again this afternoon and took another of the same brand - def BFN after 10 minutes. UGH.
I'll test again tomorrow morning. Today I'm super bloated, not much else for symptoms. I know it's still early but I feel like this month is another dumb bust.
I'm cheering you on bunny and all you other ladies hope we get our BFPS soon.....
Good luck mis2minos!! Fx for you!!
So I know with the girl away the best odds are 1 attempt at pos opk.. I got pos opk last night and DH and I DTD but I'm thinking of having another attempt on Wednesday... I have an app on my phone (what to expect fertility app) that I used to pg with DS 3.. We DTD one time according to the app and got pg first try with 1 attempt. Well my app says to DTD on Wednesday so idk what to do... At this point we really just want to get pg.. DH thinks we should have a 2nd attempt on Wednesday and at first I agreed but now I'm second guessing myself and I don't know why...
Menic, I know very little but would think that if you've already had a pos opk another go a few days later at worst shouldn't make a difference . anyone else got any ideas ?
I've just been wreaking my head looking up pregnancy websites ! and realised that even though I'm now 14 dpo I'm only day day 27 of my cycle, though my avg cycle since April last is 25 days, last month 23 . It was definitely longer on avg before I stopped eating meat in June and doing le diet.
As you can see wreaking my head here ! I'm not going to test till Thursday if af not here by then.
I really have no symptoms except peeing a lot today and feeling full when I eat, less interested in food, not like me !
How is everyone else ?
Thanks girl I've got everything crossed for you too! Do you temp? I always o the next day after pos opk so if I bd 3 days later I would def miss the egg, if you just want to get preg already I would dtd thru we'd , timing is said to be the least important sway tactic and maybe fr might help ) xo
My update: blaring bfn this morning 9 dpo. Pretty much have counted myself out now. Next month will be my 3rd month of clomid and after that my ob wants me to see an re :(
I need to really change things up and maybe even use boy friendly things like robittusin and preseed to make cm better because I was dry as the desert on o day. I just don't know. I'm hoping to see some bfps here soon with you girls!!
Couleof how many dpo are you? I wish I had your patience !
Mis2ninos don't lose hope yet it's still early!! But if you don't get your BFP this month you might want to add a tiny amount of pre seed. If you don't conceive you have no chance at your girl and you don't want to waste a month on clomid .
Well I tested yesterday 8dpo with FMU and got a clear BFN which was ok because that told me there was nothing left from the trigger shot. Throughout the day I felt strange so I tested again at night and got a faint BFP. This morning, 9dpo I took two tests, all are the same brand, and they both came back positiv. Stronger line than last night but still not strong enough to take a picture. Trying to not get excited, I want the second line to be strong before I can get my hopes up.
Congrats pumpkin!! Fx your pos line gets darker!!
Mis2ninos 9 DPO is still early! Don't count yourself out until AF shows up! I don't temp and I wish I would have.. But at this point for me to start seems pointless because I'm praying we get pg soon. I do think we will continue to DTD.. I would love a girl but I want a sibling for my son so if that means we have another boy than that's just fine with me too! It's just hard after months and months of planning and trying to feel like I'm just giving up (which I pretty much am...)
mis2ninos - I used the progesterone suppositories as you know and it really messed up my cycle. I had a positive OPK at CD 10 then started taking the progesterone at CD 13 ( 3 days later). My period never showed up and only BFN's. Then I got another Positive OPK at CD 30 that had EWCM and big ovulation pains. I have never had a cycle this wacky!!! First time i used the progesterone before a BFP. What a nightmare!!! Just went to the doctor today to do a 7 DPO progesterone draw to see if i ovulated on the second surge. I'm so confused... What day did you start the progesterone and how long did you take it? Does it mess up your cycles and make them longer?
Nancy
Big congrats pumpkin!! Delighted for you :)
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Yay, pumpkin! FX for a sticky, pink bean... x
Was just about to say it's been a very quiet month for BFPs. Hoping we get a few more before the month is out.
Gosh Im terrible, I read all these posts and all I can think of is I wish I had more tests as want to test now!!! Will wait until tonight to buy (so I dont have to take kids in with me to buy and ask Mummy questions) and test tomorrow (11DPO) really wished I didnt waste all of mine so early. Also I used a tiny bit of preseed this month as conceived my last two using it and thought maybe that was the difference...I dont take too much stock in swaying due to my last failed attempt, if it only gets you a 62% chance instead of 50% then chances are that my fourth will be a girl anyway.
Congrats Pumpkin!!